花镇：被分手了怎么挽回她

　　nvpengyouhenanpengyouzhijiandeguanxixuyaocaozuo，danyoushijishinijinlezuidadenuli，niyehuimianlinfenshoudekenengxing。dangtadenvpengyoujuedingfenshoushi，tadenanpengyouzenmenengzhengjiutadexinni？beifenshoulezenmewanhuita？yixiacongduogejiaodujinxingfenxi：

　　1.倾听对方的想法和声音

　　shouxian，tadenanpengyoubixuqingtingtanvpengyoudexiangfaheshengyin。lejietafenshoudeyuanyin，shiyinweitazijideyuanyinhaishiyinweiqitawenti，zheishifeichangzhongyaode。youshi，tadenvpengyoukenenghuiyinweigongzuo、xueshuyaliheqitayalierzuochuzheiyangdejueding。mianduizheizhongqingkuang，tadenanpengyoubixujitadenvpengyouyidingdeqingganzhichi，bingjiandutajijiyingduiyali。

　　ruguoshiyinweizijideyuanyin，jiuyaofansizijizaiganqingshangdebiaoxian。qingtingnvyoushenghuozhongdekunnanhetiaozhan，nulijiejue。zhiyoumianduiwentidezhenxiang，fansiziji，cainengzaijiunvpengyoudeguochengzhongzhenzhengfahuizuoyong。

　　2.意外之挽回

　　chuleqingtingduifangdexiangfaheyuanwang，yiwaidehuifuyefeichangyouyong。zheijiangbaokuojiduifangyifenxiaoliwuhuoanpaiyidunlangmandewancan。buyaorangduifangjuedenitaiyilaitamen，danyebuyaotaizaiyi。gaosutamenniguanxinhezhenxizheiduanguanxi，bingyuanyiweicinuligongzuoshihenzhongyaode。

　　3.沟通和透明度

　　goutongshiweichiguanxichenggongdeguanjian。dangnidenvpengyouxiangwanchengzheiduanguanxishi，tadenanpengyoukeyiyaoqiuyixieshijianjinxingshenrudegoutong，taolunwentidelaiyuanhekenengdejiejuefangan。beifenshoulezenmewanhuita？baochitouming，gaosunidenvpengyounidexiangfahexinlizhuangtai。

　　4.行动胜于言语

　　nvpengyouzaifenshouqiankenenghuigandaoshiwang，yinweitabugouzhenxi，suoyitadenanpengyouyinggaicaiquxingdonglaibiaodatamendezhencheng。genjufengxianshijian、guanzhuhezhichilaizhanshiniduitamendezhenxi，bingbangzhutamen。