花镇：要分手了该怎么挽回

　　zhengjiuyigetongjudenvpengyoubingburongyi，yinweitongjuguanxibenshenjinglileyiduanshijiandexiangchuhemohe，kenenghuiyouhenduowentihemaodun。raner，ruguonizhendexianghuifuzheiduanguanxi，yaofenshoulegaizenmewanhui？neimexiamiandeshijiaokenenghuibangzhuni。

　　首先，了解问题的根源。

　　tongjuguanxichuxianwentideyuanyinkenengshiduofangmiande，kenengshishuangfanggoutongbuchang，huozheshishenghuoxiguanhejiazhiguandebutongyi。zhangwowentidebenzhishijiejuewentidediyibu。nikeyifansizijizaizheiduanganqingzhongshifouyouwentihuocuowu，ranhoushizhehenvpengyoujinxingzhenchengdeduihua，yiqixunzhaojiejuebanfa。

　　第二，改变自己。

　　weilezhengjiunidetongjunvyou，nibixushouxiangaibianziji。yexuzaiguoquderizili，nideyanxingrangtabumanyihuoshanghaileta。fansizijidequedian，nulichengweiyigegenghaoderen。guanxinninvpengyoudeyaoqiuhejingyan，shizhemanzuta，zhanshinidebianhuahefazhan。

　　第三是加强沟通。

　　goutongshiweichiguanxidezhongyaohuanjie。zaitongjuguanxizhong，youyugongzuofanmanghuoqitashiwufanmang，bicikenenghuihushigoutong。jinliangyingzaolianghaodegoutongfenwei，guanxinduifangdeqingxuhexuqiu，yaofenshoulegaizenmewanhui？biaodazijideguandianhejingli。jishigoutongkeyijiejuehenduowenti，fangzhiwujiehechongtu。

　　第四，一起规划未来。

　　tongjudexiayibutongchangshijinyibufazhan，birujiehunhuomaifang。yiqiguihuaweilai，zhanshiniduizheiduanguanxideyituhechengnuo。dangnidenvpengyoukandaoniduiweilaideyuanjinghejihuashi，takenenghuizixikaolvyunizhongjianzheiduanguanxidekenengxing。

　　zuihou，jinishijianhekongjian。zhengjiutongjudenvpengyouxuyaoshijian，buyaojiyuchenggong。yexutaxuyaoyiduanshijianlaisikaohelixing，jitazheiyangdeshijianhekongjianshibiyaode。zaizheiduanshijianli，nikeyitongguozijidexingdonghegaibianlaibiaoxianchunidezhenchenghejuexin。