花镇：真性分手如何挽回

　　dangnidenvpengyouheileni，congshejiaomeitipingtaishangshanchulenidelianxifangshishi，nikenenghuixianrujuewangheyihan。danshi，buyaojinghuangshicuo！yixiashiyixiebangzhunizhongxinhuodenvpengyouxinrendefangfa：zhenxingfenshouruhewanhui？

　　1.先冷静下来

　　shouxian，nixuyaolengjingxialai，buyaoshengqi，buyaojingchangjitafaxinxihuodadianhua，zheihuirangshiqinggengjiduan。lengjingxialai，lengjingsikao，chengqingxiansuo，weixiayibuzuohaochongfenzhunbei。

　　2.掌握原因

　　zhangwoninvpengyouweishenmeyaoshanchunishifeichangzhongyaode。yexunizaiguoqudemouxieshihouzuoleyixierangtabumanyideshiqing，huozhenihulveletadeganshou。huozheshiyinweibierendebuliyingxiang，biruzainimenzhijianzhizaoyaoyanhuozheshandongtayuanlini。zhangwoyuanyinhuigengrongyijiuzhengnidecuowu，zhaodaoyouxiaodefangfalaiwanhui。zhenxingfenshouruhewanhui？

　　3.认错

　　dangnizhidaozheigewentishi，nibixuchengrennidecuowu。chengshidixiangnidenvpengyoudaoqian，biaomingnidexiangfahexingweiyijinggaibianle，rangtazhidaonidezhenchenghejuexinyaogaibian。duiyunvpengyoudejingliyeyinggaigengjiaguanzhuheqinmi，gengguanxinta，gengduodibangzhutabaituokunnanyeyouzhuyuhuifu。

　　4.花时间和努力

　　zaizhengjiunidenvpengyoudeguochengzhong，nixuyaohuafeidaliangdeshijianhejingli。jijirangtaganshoudaonidecunzai，anpaigengduodeshijianhetadanduxiangchu，rangtaganshoudaonidezhenchengheguanzhu，manmanjiashentaduinidexinrenheshanyi，zheiyidianyouweiguanjian。niyekeyijitayixiexiaoliwu，zhanshinideguanxinheguanxin，danyeyaozhuyitaiduheshijian，buyaorangduifangyilai，zheihuishideqifan。