和女友分手后该怎么挽回

　　zaiaiqingzhong，jingchanghuiyinweibutongdeguandian、xiangfahuoxingweimoshierfashengzhengzhi，zheikenenghuirangnidenvpengyouduinishiwang，youqishidangnidexingweirangtagandaoshoushanghuoshiwangshi。zaizheigeshihou，fenshouhougaizenmewanhui？niyinggaizuoxieshenmelaizhengjiutadexinni？yixiashicongxinlihexingdongdejiaodu，jiniyigexiangxidedaan。nvyoushiwangtoule，zenmewanhui？youshenmewanhuijiqiao？

　　1.积极认错

　　shouxian，nixuyaochengrennidecuowu，bingzhenchengdixiangtadaoqian。tebieshidangnidexingweishanghailetashi，nibixuzixikaolvnizijidewenti，bingzhenzhengxiangtadaoqian，biaodanineixinshenchudeyihanheyihan。

　　2.给她时间和空间

　　dangtadenvpengyougandaoshiwanghetongkushi，taxuyaoyixieshijianhekongjianlaichulitadeqingxu。buyaoshitulijiyuanliangni，yinweizheizhihuizengjiatamuqiandeqingxuhefumianqingxuqiangdu。fenshouhougaizenmewanhui？rangtayoushijianhejihuilengjingdisikaohepinggunidedaoqianhegaibian。

　　3.改变他们的行为

　　xiangnvpengyoudaoqianshiyifangmian，gaibiantamendexingweishilingyigegengguanjiandefangmian。gaosutaniyuanyizuochugaibian，genghaodiweitahenideguanxizuochugengduodenuli，bingxiangtazhanshinigaibiandexingwei。zairichangshenghuozhong，tongchangyongyanyuhexingdonglaibiaodanideaiheguanzhu，rangnidenvpengyouganshoudaonideguanxin。youxiexijiefeichangguanjian，tahuiganshoudaonidezhenchengheduinideguanzhu。zhangwoduifangdexuqiuheqiwang，bingzunzhongduifangdexuanzejueding。zhiyouzheiyang，womencainengzhenzhenghuifushiqudeai，zhongjianlianghaodeaiguanxi。