没结果却又不愿意分手？分手了该和前任保持联系吗？

 qingganzhongcengjingzijizuilejiedebicizhijiandeqinglvzaifenshouhoubianchengzuilejiedeluren，naizhiyeyouhenyoukenengjinshengbuhuizaiyouwanglai；youyixieqinglvzaifenshouhoubianchengduishou，yitiandaowandianjizhexianghuzhijianduifu；youyixieqinglvzaifenshouhounenggoubianchengpengyou，tamennenggouqingqingsongsongjiaowang，yebuhuiyounaxiejingshenyalihenankandediqu。nandefenshouhoubuzailianxinishibuailema？zheibushijueduide。nanshengbiqimeijieguoqueyoubuyuanyifenshou，haiburusuixinerlai，ruguojuedeleilejiufenshou。neimezhenduihepingfenshoudeqinglveryan，yingdangruhekandaizishendeqiannanyouni？

1.假如对彼此之间也有损害，那么就千万别联络

 jibianshiyouyidefenshou，yeshiyouganqingdechuangkou。biru，kenengshiyifangpibeibingzaochengxiexi。zaizheiyike，jiarunizhendeshiweilegenghaodilingyifanghaodehua，buyaoshuo，huoshishihaopengyou，zheidanchunjiushinizishendetuoci。neiyang，zongshiyouyigejieguo，neibianshirangmeiyoufangxiadeneirengengweidewufafangxia。

2.学好释怀，放下以往

 wulundajiashiyouyushishenmeyuanyinfenshoude，jirandajiazaoyifenshoule，zheizhongyuanguzaoyibianchengyiwang。jiranzheijianshiqingdouguoqu，neiyoumeiyoushenmekehuailiandema？henduorenchangchangpengdaonanti，youyutamenbukeyifangkaishou。shijishang，douzaoyiguoqu，buguanshiduoshaoyanleihequehanhouhuimojidouhuanbuhuiyiqiandetianmeihewennuan，zuihaoshihuoshifangkaishou。

3.不得已应客观应对

 youshihou，zaihepingfenshouyihou，yinweihenduoyuangu，butaikenengbuhangsheng。ruguoshizheileipobudeyihelingyifangchupeng，neimeruguonijiaowangshi，bubiyoufanzadetanlianaigan，youyumeiyouganqingjiufeichangrongyijiaowang。

4.最好是不必碰面

 jinguanzheishiyigeyouyidefenshou，keshiyaowanquandefangxialingyifangnalijianyia，yincixiangyuburubujian。huoxuneishihoudefenshoushiyouyutamenzhongdeyixierenbudeyi，huoshizaoyipilebei，huoshishipengdaoleyixieshier，zheizaochenglefenshou，youyutamenrengchuzaidiaojiehuanjie，feichangrongyifashengqingxubodong。yincicike，zhenduiqiannanyouyaoshimeiyoubixudeshier，zuihaoshilinshibubilianluo。

5.之后再相见

 jibianzaihepingfenshouhoutamentiaoxuanbianchengpengyou，tamenyebukeyizaiduanqineineiyiqijianghua。tamenbixuyigequanguocheng。dangtamenyongyougenghaodeshenghuoshi，cikezhenduibicizhijianeryancaisuanshifangxia，dangshidehepingfenshoucainenggourangdajiakeyihenningjingdequjianghua。

6.像看待朋友一样看待他

 fenshouhou，zheiyiduanguanlianwufahuidaocongqian，danniyulingyifangdeguanlianjinjinzaipengyouhebierenzhongjian。yinci，jiaruniyaozaifenshouhoujilingyifangliuyouhaoyinxiang，ninengzaiciyunibaochilianluo。suihou，ruguonizhongshilingyifangdefenlichulaijueceshi，zuixiansuodingnizhongjiandeganqingguanlianbingqingxidisisuo。nantideyuangu，suihougaizhengnanti，neiyangruguonizuoweiyigeyitongdepengyoutiejintashi，nicaiyoujianjiandizaidushencengcidaotadexinli，zaochengercixiyindefengcai。

 yiduihepingfenshoudeqinglvmeibiyaozeguaibicizhijian，kuanyidairen，dangranhuipaoxiayiwang。duiyuzhihoushibushihaikeyifuhexing，zheizaoyibuhuizaiguanjianle。youyudajiadoukeyibaituotongchu，bingjinxinglequanxinshengjiderichangshenghuo。ruguojuedeleilejiufenshou，meijieguoqueyoubuyuanyifenshouzhihuishanghaishuangfangdeqinggan。suoyinandefenshouhoubuzailianxinishibuailema？yuqiwenzheigewentiburukaishiwanhuixingdong！