你终于开了口说分手就分手，分手很久怎么挽回？

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1.绝不能放弃，要坚持不懈

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2.用行动讲话

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3.更改语言沟通技巧

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jiarunigenggailegoutongdefangshi，ninengzaiaidebiaodafangshishangzoudegengzhang，gengchangshun。

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