dangtijiqianrenshi,henduorentanlexuduo,dangtamendiyicichuziyugezhonggeyangyuanguqudeqingkuangxia,tamenmeiyoulaidaoyiqi,bianchenglebicizhijiandeqianren。youderenzaoyilikaibingkaishilexindeshenghuo,youxierenyezaoyizhenglihaolazishendeqingxu,danyouderennishifouhaijideshibushiyaojilaotamendeqianren,xinhuaitante,houhuimoji,danxin,buqingchuwanhuinengfouqudechenggong。buxiangfenshougaizenmeshuobijiaohao,ruguodangshishiduqibanshuodaonizhongyukailekoushuofenshoujiufenshou,xianzaixiangwanhuile。henvpengyoufenshoulexiangwanhuidehuayuyouyongma?
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1.适度的冷暴力
fenshouzaoyibianchengshiji,nizaiyebuhuiguidinghenizheiyangderenle,bingqieruguonizaiyiqishi,niwuxutaiguodanyouta。ruguonixiangzhiqianyiyangbaochilianluobingzaicizhaoliaolingyifang,tahuiganjuenidajiaozishen,juedegengyanfan,bingqushilingyifangraokaini。niyinggailinshizhongzhilianluo,huashijianrangliangrenjiejuehaozishendexintai,bubitishengxianghuzhijiandefenqi,haifangzhilingyifangjiangnideyiqielianxidianhuashandiao。
2.理智找分手的原因
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3.提高自己,改进自身
liangrenbicizhijiandeguanlianjiaozhangyiduanshijian,bicizhijianshishenmeyangderenneixinhaowuyiwendouqingxi,nixuyaocongzishenxunzhaoyuangusuihougaibian,bianyuqianrenkeyizaicilejieni。jiaruyaoxianglingyifangdiyijuedebianshiniyougenggaidehua,zuixianyaotigaogengxingaizaozishen。zhengxiuzishendezongtiyitai,zheiyeshiduibierendeyizhongwenminglimao。biru,xuedeleyixiexindewupin,yifengfuduocaizishendeshenghuo,chedigenggaiwodexinshen。lingwai,tishengnindezuocaifangfa,xuedanjita,dianziqinhuokaizhantanxian。dangshenghuofengfuheduozhongduoyangshi,benshenyouhuolihuiwuxingzhongdetisheng,dengdajiazaixiangjiandeneiyitianjiukeyizaicizaochengqianrendehaoqixin。
4.再次取得联系
dangninxiufudaogaoshiyongjiazhishi,ninyouchongzudezhengtishilihezichanlaibaochitongyangdejunheng。suihouzaizheigehuanjie,yutajianlilianxihuoshengchanzhizaobujingyideyouhui,zuochugenggai,tihuinidefengcai。zheierchangshuodejianlilianxi,dajiazuihaoshichuangjianqiaoyu,ruguoyigenvrenshijishangdouxiaijuede,xiaiyuanfenzheiliangzi,jiaruzaiouranzhijianjuededaonidefengcai,neime,tahenyoukenengjianxinshilaotianyedeyuanfenrangdajiazaicixiangyu。
5.积极一点让情感提温
zheiyihuanjiedeliuchenghequanguochengyuyouhuihuanjietongyang-zaizheigehuanjienixuyaozuodebingbushifanyiyangdebuzhengque,zhishiyingyonglanmanhezizhuchuangxindefangshihezhenzhengdegerenxingwei。rangnvxingganshoudaotanlianaidexingfuhexingfukuaile,neiyangdajiadeqingganyouhuifanhuigangtanlianaishideneileijuede。henvpengyoufenshoulexiangwanhuidehuayuzaiwanhuizhongyesuanshibibukeshaode,danbiqibuxiangfenshougaizenmeshuobijiaohao,gengzhongyaodeshixingdong。neixie“nizhongyukailekoushuofenshoujiufenshou”deduqihuayubukeque!
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