你终于开了口说分手就分手，如何在分手后重新和前任复合？

 fenshoutongchangsuizhezhetongchu，youshihounaizhishijiaoweicanrende。ruguonijinglileyicifenshoubingchajuezijixiangyaowanhuinvyoulai，neimenixuyaocaiyongyixieguanjiandeliuchengjiqigaoqingchubixuchulidenanti。beijudeshi，zheizhongquanshihenbuyide。dantamenshihenyoukenengde。buxiangfenshougaizenmeshuobijiaohao，ruguodangshishiduqibanshuodaonizhongyukailekoushuofenshoujiufenshou，xianzaixiangwanhuile。henvpengyoufenshoulexiangwanhuidehuayuyouyongma？

1.负责任。

 ruguonixiangcongtoukaishinideguanxi，nizuixianbixuduinidiyicizuocuodeshierfuzeren。bicizhijianzuoxialai，yuanyijiuyiwangdebumanyikaizhanlizhidechengnianrenhuihua。，yemeiyourangniyinggaiyoudeguanxin。baoqian，woxianggenggaita。”

2.致力于提高自己。

 buguanninshibushiqudechenggongwanliu，zheidoukeyong。ruguoniqudechenggongdizaicijuzaiyiqi，bubijiuchanbuqingyuyiwangdebuzhengquehuohuashijianxianghuzhijianchizebuzhengque。fanguolai，zhiliyutantaodajiameiyigerencongguanxizhongxuyaoshenme，bingtantaozenyangxiezhubicizhijianhuodeta。zhiliyunixiangyaoqianxingdewupin，erbushiniyiwangzuoguohuozuoguodeshier。biru，ninengjieshiyixia，“dangwohepengyouyiqichulaideqingkuangxia，worenweiniduiwohenshengqi，woxiangzheihenyoukenengshiyouyuwoshiqianmeiyourangnilejiewodejihua。tashiduidema？“suihoumingquetichujiejuekunnandefangshi，liruyuanyizaichulaigongzuozhongriyiqianzuishaotizao5zhongtoutonggao，zheixie。

 ruguonimeiyouqudechenggongdizaicijuzaiyiqi，bubitaiguoguanxinnidebuchenggonghuoshinizuobuduinaxie。zhangwoninnenggoucongnajigefangmianqigongxiao，najigefangmianshixiao，bingzhujianzaicitigaoziji。

3.制订一下挽留方案。

ruguonimen2gejuecezaidushizhezheileiguanxi，qingzhidingquelideshoujiyouxifanganyixiezhuniqianxing。

 shijimingquedajiameiyigerencongzheileiguanxizhongbixuhexiangyaodewupin。wen：“nijuedenizhiqianmeiyouhuodenaxie？”he“dajianengzuoxienaxielaixiezhunicongguanxizhonghuodezheiyi？”yiyang，gaozhitanixuyaoshenme-bubichize-erqieshujunimenliangzenyangxiezhudajiabaozhengzheiyidian。

duininzhixingzheizhongyaoqiuhexinyuandeyiwushezhiyouxiaodeqidai。

 xinxintanyitan-xuduo。dingqiweihuguanxihenindemanyilv。zhenglianchulizheizhongnantizhenduihanyouciqianxinglixiangdeguanxitebieshizaiguanjian。

4.维持良好的心态。

 ruguonidediyicijuhuihuodongshunlikaizhanerqiedajiadoukeyizaidupengmian，neibianshiduiyuxiangjindediyazhuangkuang。quelibiaomingninyouxingquaihaozaizheiliyidianshangzaicilianluobianchengpenyou，erqienimeiqidaizheidaibiaozheniyoufanhuileyiqi。

 jiaruzaiyiqiduguoyixiewugongzuoyalideshijianyihou，dajialianggerendoujianxindajiazhongjianyirancunyouzhemingxiandelianluo，dajianenggoumingquetichudajiaguanxidezhutifengge，jiqidajia2geshibushihenyoukenengxiangyaotanxunzaicijuzaiyiqidegailv。nihenyoukenengyaoshuo，“woyizhizaixiangdajiadefenshou，woxiangwolejiezaochengtadenanti。niyaotanyitantama？“

 jiarutaduizheiyitiyizuochuxiaochenfanying。ruguonibujienashi，niyueqinfen，niyejiuyuehuisunhaizishendegongzuo。jiarutahaoxianggengrongyijieshou，jitayixieshijianbingzaicichulizheiyihuatitaolun。jiarutayiranbucanjiazaiqizhong，neimejiuzhujianrangzishendiaohehenyoukenengburongyichanshengdegailv。

5.逐渐渐渐地挽留，不必太着急。

 ruguonizaoyifenlilechongzudeshijianbingtiqianzhunbeishizheyutachupeng，neimeyaoyidiyafangfakaizhan。bubiyiqingxubuwendingdefangfazhujianshuo“woqueshiqidaidajiafanhuiyiqi”huoshikongbude“dajiabixujianghua”。quelibiaomingnizhiweizuoweipenyoujuzaiyiqilaichayanlingyifangderichangshenghuo，erbushipinlemingxiangyaodiaojiehuoqingchuyiwangdebumanyi。

 zaibaochizhonglidediyashineikongjianzhaokaihuiyi。tiyichiwucanhuoyibeikafei。fangzhitiaoxuanyigejidajialiangrenchanshengqingganchongdongdediqu，lirudajiachangchangzaiyiqichangchanghuigudekafeitinghuonidiyiciqudecanyindian。zheihaoxiangshiyigeconghuidexingwei，dantazongshizhanwucicizaoshou，gengyoukenengrangtacongyikaishijiuchuzaidiqiangworuo。henvpengyoufenshoulexiangwanhuidehuayuzaiwanhuizhongyesuanshibibukeshaode，danbiqibuxiangfenshougaizenmeshuobijiaohao，gengzhongyaodeshixingdong。neixie“nizhongyukailekoushuofenshoujiufenshou”deduqihuayubukeque！