失恋了放不下前任怎么挽回？分手我还要留恋什么

 fenshouhouyiqianzheixiehezishenhaishishanmengderendaojiduonianyihoumoluxiangfengshi，tamencaimingbai，yiqiandehaishishanmeng，dijiutianzhang，shijishangbuguoshiyimianzhijiao，kongwuyireneryi。yiqianrenweiliangrennenggouxieshoubingjianxiangyixiangwei，danfangkaishoujiucaizhidaobicizhijianjinjinrenshengdeguoke，shiqujiuburongyihaiyouxiangjiao，dangyiqiedouxiaotuihou，liangrenjibianjiangehenjin，keshixinquetianyazhichi。jibiandajiazaoyifenshoule，shitazaiduaishangleniyebushibutaikenengde。xixinxiangyixiang，zhixudajiayiqianbicixiangaiguo，tayiqianshifenaizheni，neitaduinideaijiunanyiqushi，zhongjiubuguanguoquleshiduoshaoshijian，renkeshifou，tazongshihuizainidexinlizhanjuyixizhidi。nvpengyoufenshoulehuihuilaima？fenshouleganxieduifangfumuzhiwai，zheiyangdefenshouwohaiyaoliulianshenme？yaoxiangwanhuinideaiqing，nixuyaozhangwodeshizenyangchudongta，laizhaodaotadejiqing。

1.更改表达形式

 youyuwozaoyiyongyouai，yinciwodeqianrenyingdanglejienihenaita，tananyiaishangleni。zhongjiu，meiyigerendouyaoxiangtamenmeiyoudedongxi，yincirangtamengenggaitamendebiaoshu，yuelaiyueduitayouyouhuolishifenguanjian。aizishenshiyijianshifenyansurenzhendeshier，danxunzhaoganqingdequanguochenghenyoukenengburongyitaiyansurenzhen。aidezhenzhenzhengzhenghanyihuoxuzheileixinlidecuicanshiyichangxiaoxiaolianaiyouxi，shinigengnengmingbainishibushiqueshihenzhuzhongzheiyifenqinggan。ruguoniaita，quzhaotagaobai，zhaoxunzishendeganqing。

 xiangyixiangweihelingyifangyouyunibulijieermeiyoujitamenyaoxiangdedongxierfenshou。suihou，zaibiangengyiqian，ninwubichedilejielingyifang，suihougaibianxianzhuang，zaicirongguanghuanfachuyouhuoli。genjuzheileifangfa，lingyifangjiangduininyouxingqu，bingjiangyuninfuhexing。

2.不同寻常是十分关键的

 qianwanbieshahuhutourule。wulunruhe，dajiazaoyifenshoule，neimejiububishuomingniyiranzaiyiguoduo。zuihaoshizhuyaobiaoxianchuninyouzishendeshenghuo，bingzhuyaobiaoxianchu“qiannanyouburongyizaidulianluo”dexinlizhuangtai。neiyangfanernengbawozhutadexin，jiejuedenghoudebubianfashengyiwaiyebuyiding。ercixiyindebiaozhunyibanquxiangyuzaimeiyouchupengqiadangzhuanyezhishidezhuangkuangxiagenjupenyoudetiyilaizhengjiuaiqinghuoquzhuiqiuwanmeiyigeren，danzaidabufenshehuifazhanzhongguangweiliuchuande“qiadangzhuanyezhishi”tongchangbingbushihaohaoyong！

3.自信心

 wanhuijihuidezhangwo，zuidanxindeshisha？shiyouyubuding。chiyihuixiaohaodaliangshijianlaimingqueshibushizuodedui，zhengxundaliangrendejianyishuomingtamendeniantoushiqiadangde，weizijidaliangdedanlianghejili，suihouzhixingwanhui。yiban，neiyangyigebuhuoyuexingdequanguocheng，jieguoshiyiyangyaoquwanhui，keshiquecuoguolezuihaodewanhuijihui，shinidewanhuinanduxishututian。

 jirantiaoxuanlewanhui，neimejiubiezaiyouyu，suoxingdian，genggaizishendequedian，gaijinbingtishengyouhuolizaizaicixiyinzhulingyifangdeguanxin。xunzhaozishendekuaile，jijizhudongyingduishenghuo，canyujuhuihuodong，jigoulvyou.bubixiaochen，zuoyixiekaixindeshier，duizishenhao，bingweichifenfaxiangshangdexintaifeichangrongyixiyinren。

4.感恩之心

 shijishang，zaizheigejieduanzuizhongyaodeshishulizishendexinlizhuangtai，pingjingxialai，shenmeshidoubuzuo，huanjieyalibici，yingduicanrenfenshougerenxingwei。ruguonikanxianjieduandezhuangkuangshi，caihuiweixiamiandewanhuijingongzuozuiquanfangweidetiqianzhunbei。dongdeganen，rangtarenganjueniyouzhetamenmeiyoudedongxi。ruguonideguangzeduzugoudianliangbieren，nijiangdedaochuhuyiliaodehuode。

5.应对以往

 meirenshijizhide，womenzhidaoquanbuzheizhongjibenchangshi，danfeichangshaoyouxierenjienahegenggai。jiranfashengleyixieshier，weishenmebushizhejienatabingshizhegenggaini？jiaruninxiangtuidongyuqiannanyoudeguanlian，ninnenggoushizhegaibianxianzhuang。changshiqinfenwanshanziwo，rangqiannanyougengchiminiyebingbushimeiyouhenyoukeneng。

6.恰当的心态

 youxierenshuo，“ruguonitiaoxuanwanhui，neimejiububilangfeishijian，cuoguolianghaodejihuie！jiuchanbuqingyuzheizhongnanti，yisibugoudibazheijianshiqinggaohao，jinjiaodadeqinfenjiasuwanhuidejinzhan。”

 fenshouyaoxiangfuhexing，xuduorendaowanhuiganqingdeshihouhuiwenxuduonanti。shishishang，zheizhongnantiyuwanhuibuxianggan。youyuwanhuibingbushizainidexinlideshifangchulai，yebushizaixintaidefaxie，zhishizainidexintai，ruguonisuozuodeyiqiedouduiwanhuiyouyingxiang。fenshouwohaiyaoliulianshenme，nvpengyoufenshoulehuihuilaima？jishifenkaileneiduansuiyuezhishaotianmiguo，fenshouleganxieduifangfumuyenengweiwanhuizhengqudianjihui。