henduorenquanshizaisangshihoucaidongdezhenxi,ruoshibuyuanrangxingfudeqingganbianchengyiwang,neimejiubixubawofenshouhouwanliunanyoudefangshi,yongyizhongjijizhudongdefangfaqujiejue,zaicizhaodaochengzhidechuncuideaiqing!nanrenfenshouweihebushanweixin?fenshouweihenandehaijiedianhua?zheixiedouweinitigonglewanhuidejihui,danshibunengbaozhengtahaiaini,jiuxiangfenshouhouxuanzexiaoshideyifangyebuyidingshitaoyanni。taolunyixiafenshouhouwanliunanyoudefangshi:
一、保持理性和抑制。
yingduiqianren,zuiqiadangdexintaishiweichibixudekeguanyuyizhi。youderenhenyoukenenghuiduiqianrenxinhuaixiangxiang,renweiqianrenmoutianjiuhuiweifenshouerhouhuimoji,jinerhuishoulaiyueni,kutianhandiqiunikuanrong,qipanyunizhongguiyuhao。nizuihaoduandiaozheileizhinian,zhuanxinzhizhiguoniyaozishendeshenghuo。nixuyaogaoqingchuyidian,youyixieqingganyurenyidancuoguo,bianshishizhongcuoguole,butaikenenghaiyouzhongyuanzheiyishuo。ruguoniyingduiqianrendeqingkuangxia,nixuyaoweichiyizhi,bubirangyishidebulizhimengbiledanao,zuochushinihouhuimojiyishengdeshier。youqishidangdajiadoufenbieyongyoujiazhonghehunyinshenghuodeqingkuangxia,jiuqianwanbieheqianrenjiuchanbuqingle
二、思考本身的缺陷,认可本身不正确
dangnanrenxiangnimingquetichufenshou,youxuduonvxingzongshibaoyuannanrenhuaxin,baoyuanlingyifangjueqing,quebumingbaiziwofansibenshen,buqingchulingyifangyaoxiangfangqinidezhenzhenzhengzhengyuangu,zongshixiguanxingbacuoquantuidaonanshengdeshenshang,nvxingshidudecubaonanshenghuiganjuetaorenxihuan,keshiguoquledujiulingrentaoyanle。yaoxiangwanliulingyifang,jiuxuyaosikaobenshendequexian,xianglingyifangrenkezishendebuzhengque,neiyangjianshaodajiabicidefenqidian,jiangditaduinidefouren,neiyangyouyiyuxiamiandewanliu。
三、复建本身的吸引力
shijishangfenshoudezhijieyuanyinbianshinidexiyinlibugouzaochengerchengde,yexuninengjuede“danshidangshishitaxianzhuiqiuwanmeiwode”,zhengshizishenyouchongzudexiyinli,danbianshiyouyuzheileiguannian,zaochengniyizhizaiyutalianaizhongcuxindayiweichihetigaozijidexiyinli,danlingyifangqueyizhizaitigaozijidexiyinli,xiangjiaoweiniyejiukanqilaimeiyoushiyongjiazhi,zhangciyiwangdanglingyifangganjuenideshiyongjiazhiguodiqingkuangxiajiutiaoxuanfenshou。zishenxixiangyixia,dangshihenyoukenengyouyunidepiaoliangdebiaomian,nidefengfuduocaideshenghuo,nideliaobuwanqitedehuatitaolunkeyixiyinta,danshizailianaizhong,niguodushiquziwowaiguansheji,jinjinweiraotazhuandejiandanshenghuofangfa,tanlaitanququanshigongzuozhongshenghuodekuzaofaweidehuatitaolun,lingdaozishenxiyinlidadajianshaocaisuanshifenshoudaohuosuo。rujinyaowanliulingyifangjiuxuyaofujianbenshendexiyinli,jiangzishenwaiguanshejijibenjianshedegengqiang,guoshangfengfuduocaideshenghuofangfa,zhaoxungengduoxinqiyouqudewenti,zhengshizishenxiyinlihuoshizhiqianneibannaizhigengqiang。fenshouhouxuanzexiaoshideyifangwangwangbushiaidezuishen,jiushishangdezuishen。nanrenfenshouweihebushanweixinyeyoukenengxiangjixuguanzhunideshenghuo。fenshouweihenandehaijiedianhuayeyoukenengdanxinniyoujishi,suoyidadanquwanhuiba!
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