男人分手为何不删微信，恋爱挽回的误区与难点有哪些？

 nanrenfenshouweihebushanweixin？fenshouweihenandehaijiedianhua？zheixiedouweinitigonglewanhuidejihui，danshibunengbaozhengtahaiaini，jiuxiangfenshouhouxuanzexiaoshideyifangyebuyidingshitaoyanni。"ganqinghaosishiyouhuodeiphone，youxierenxiangjiangqiquxia，tihuixiangtianshuangkoudeweier，eryouxierenquxiahouhuifajueweiersuansuande，qizhiyouyihan。"

nvxingzailijingshucitanlianaiyihouhuiyouzheyizhongkongjuzhixin，danxinpengdaobiaocengxianlikeshiqueshibuzhiweideguoshi。

 xuduodenanshengtongchanghuibaganqingyanzangdeqili，danshilibianqueyongyouchengqianshangwandemengpian，bianshiyouyuwaiyupanbiandeshierbujiqishu，nvxingdanyouzishenhuibeiwushengwuxisunhai。

youhenduorendoushuonanshengtaixinuwuchang，ganqingyouyixiebukekao，yineryouyixierenjiuhuizhaoxunxinlineixiangxingdenanhaier。

 zailijinghenduonianzhaoxunhoufajueneixiangxingdenanshengyexushizuihaodetiaoxuan，keshixinlixuezhuanjiajiubiaomingshizhongbubiliaoyigexingqingneixiangdenansheng。

●挽留中的三个错误观念：

cuowuguannian➊：baguoshituijilingyifang

 youxierenyaoshuo：zaiyiqisannianle，jihuquanshiwoshuaita，weishenmewojiangshacicitadoushuoyaogenwofenshou。jiaoshi，taruhehuranjiufashengbianhuani?

 shijishanglingyifangbingbushihuranfashengbianhua。zhishizaigennijiaowangdequanguochengzhongjiuyidianyidiandezaigaibianle，jinjinnimeiyoufajue，shijishangjiarubadajiadeganqingzuoweiyigeyinxingzhanghu，meiyicijiushinigentazuo，meiyicinishuaitadeqingkuangxia。

 jiushiyizheiyizhanghuzhongtikuan，bingqieshichaodajinedetikuan。jiaruniyizhizhitikuandechuxu，neimedajiadeqingganjiuhuixiaomodaijin，cicitagennifenshoubianshiganqingxiaoqiandezaoyijianshaodaotaderenshouduxialiedeyizhongzhuyaobiaoxian，jibianlejieninyouxinderen，niyemeiyoubanfa，nigaibianbushangxiankuang，bingqiezainijibengaibianjinxingyiqian，jibiannilaizhaotadoumeiyouyiqieyoudian。jinyouruguoniyouyidingdegaibiandeqingkuangxia，nicaiyongyouzaicixiyinzhutadezichan。

cuowuguannian➋：renweizishenyeyouyouhuoli

 youxierenwen：xiangyaozhidaotarujinshifouyouxiaiqitanvhaihuanjuhuashuoshifouyoubiedenvhaizaizhuita，wozhendanyouya，gaizenmeban?

 yuqishuodanyoutashenpangshifouyouxinderen，bibushangquqinfendetigaoziji，youyudajiarujinzaoyishiyigefenshoudeqingkuang，jibiannizhidaoyouxinderen，niyemeiyoubanfa，nigaibianbushangxiankuang，bingqiezainijibengaibianjinxingyiqian，jibiannilaizhaotadoumeiyouyiqieyoudian。jinyouruguoniyouyidingdegaibiandeqingkuangxia，nicaiyongyouzaicixiyinzhutadezichan

cuowuguannian➌：zhuangzuogaibian。

 youxierenshuo：jiaoshi，wobenlaidouzaoyizaigaile，bingbuxiangzhiqianneimejiaozongle，ketabianshibuganxiangxin，bensile，yougentachaoleyijia。xianzaiwoyinggaizenmebanni?

 nishuonizaoyigaizhengle，buhuizaijiaozong。keshikeguanshishizeshidangtabuyanzhenideqingyideqingkuangxia，xiangxinnigailedeqingkuangxia，niyougentachaoleyijia。zheibingbuqiahaoshibiaominglenimeiyougaibianma?xuduoderendoushihuifanneiyangdebuzhengque，zongshiyiweizishenzaoyifashengbianhua，shilingyifangkanbujianzishendegaibian。

 shijishangshishishangxuduoqingkuangxianijinjinjiadegaibianle，yidanlingyifangmolianniyixia，niyejiunongqiaochengzhuorutongniyiqianhenshuciyiyang，wojiuyongwonenggai，piantagennihehao，keshiqueyagenbubian。

●挽回爱情的4大难题

 zaiqinmiwujiandeguanliandoushihuiyoufenqi，jiaruganqingjingyingbujia，youyugezhonggeyangyuangu，dangfumianqingxujileitaiduo，lianggerendemaodunshengji，zuihoujiuhuizaochengfenshou。zheiyejiushizaochenglewanliuzhongdesidananti。

➊：丧失兴趣爱好。

 dajiazaixiangchuzhong，dajialijingshijiandemoheqi，taduinizaoyishushile。dangtaganjuenibuhuizaiyouxinxiangan，yejiushishiquduinidexingquaihao。jinermeiletanxun，lingyifanghuijuedegennizaiyiqitaipingpingdandan。lingwaiyeyaochengshounidebaopiqi，yincizaochenglingyifangyagenbuyuangennifuhexing。fenshouhouxuanzexiaoshideyifangwangwangbushiaidezuishen，jiushishangdezuishen。nanrenfenshouweihebushanweixinyeyoukenengxiangjixuguanzhunideshenghuo。fenshouweihenandehaijiedianhuayeyoukenengdanxinniyoujishi，suoyidadanquwanhuiba！

➋：近因效应。

 dajiazaiyiqideqingkuangxiayouhenduonanwangdehuiyi，dandajiafenshoudeqingkuangxiaquesipolian，nongdetongguiyujin，zheizhongbunanwangdehuiyichongyizaidajiadenaozili，zheizhongbianshilingyifangduiniyinxiangxiajiangdeyuangu，jiarudajiazaifenshouyihou，niyaobuduandejiuchanbuqingzehuijilingyifangdaozhigengchadeyinxiang，naizhihuiduinizaochengdichudexintai。

➌：负面信息预测。

 zaidajiameiyicidelianluojiqinimeiyicidewanliuzhongniquanshizaisipilailian，jiusuanneishihounijilelingyifangquebaolexiayicizaiyebunengfan。kedajiahehaohounidouquebaobingmeiyouduifu。ranglingyifangganjueyunifuhexing，zongshishenxianxinyilundecuican。zheijiushilingyifangduinideebiantiaojianciji。huanjuhuashuobianshilingyifangzaoyipalenile。

➍：抵触心理状态。

 dajiazaizheiliduanganqingzhongbaokuoleguoduodeenyuanlingrenmeifawangque，keshifenshoudeqingkuangxia，henduorenhuizaochengzhengzhierqieyouyuqingxubodong，xuehuifangxiashangrendehua，zhengfengxiangduinaizhijianglelaosibuxiangwanglai，mahaobuchihuitoucao，weilegenghaodilianmiantayehuibuletou。fenshouhouxuanzexiaoshideyifangwangwangbushiaidezuishen，jiushishangdezuishen。nanrenfenshouweihebushanweixinyeyoukenengxiangjixuguanzhunideshenghuo。fenshouweihenandehaijiedianhuayeyoukenengdanxinniyoujishi，suoyidadanquwanhuiba！