分手了又来暗恋我，我可以挽回老公的心的心?

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离婚之后怎么才能 挽回老公的心的心? xianghuzhijianyongjing，caikeyicujinganqing

一、了解到自身的难题，积极向丈夫以诚相待

 youdenvxingbatanlianaiqingkuangxiadetihuisongdaolexianshishenghuozhong，suichudouxuyaozhangfutiexinzhaoliao。shubuzhi，dabufennanrenzaihunhoubagongzuozhongzhongxindianfangdaolegongzuozhonghegongzuoshang，duixifude“jiaogui”henbuganxingqu。yiner，jiarushiyouyunvxingdefenshoudewenan“jiaoshengguanyang”zaochengdezhengchaohuoshitichufenshou，nvrenyaozaibenshenshangzhaoyuangu。

 jiazhongjianlifeichangrongyi，baochiburongyi。lejiedaozishenzaijiazhongzhongdeyingxianglihedanfudeyiwu，jiarujiazhongyaliguanjianyouzhangfudanfu，meiliyouqubaoyuanzhangfu，fanguolai，haiyingguanzhuzhangfu，jijixiangzhangfuchengrencuowu。ranglaogongbuweirichangshenghuodesuosuikunao，jizhongzhuyiligangongzuo。

二、积极肩负起保持家中、照料小孩的义务

 jiazhongyebixubaochi。yongxinbaochidejiazhongcaihuigengweihexie、gengweiwennuan。fenshoudewenannvrenyaobianhuazishendezhenshishenfenherenwujiaose，badaliangdesixuyongzaibaochijiazhong、zhaoliaoxiaohaideshenshang，rangnanshengbuyijiatingmaodun、xiaohainanticaodaliangdexin。yibanlaishuo，nvxingdegongzuomubiaobinanshengdeyaoqingyixie，yincizaijiazhongbaochicengmian，bixuzijintourudaliangdehuoli。

 ciwai，haizijiaoyuhefazhanyeshijiazhongdezhongxindian。jiaruhaizidejiaoyurengyounanshengchengdan，yaofenshoulezenmewanhuixuduo qingkuangxiakanqilaixinyouyuerlibuzu。zheishihou，nvrenyaolizaizhangjiufazhanqushideshijiao，xiezhuzhangfupaiyoujienanyaofenshoulezenmewanhui。zheizhongxingweiyehuichudongzhangfu，zaitayanzhong，xifushixianshude，gudajude。

三、隔三差五与丈夫幽会，交心谈心

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 dangfajuezhangfuyingongzuoyalitaidaerfashengjiaolvshi，nvrenyaoxiezhuqishutongfenshouleyoulaianlianwo。yongshijixingdongfentanzhangfujianbangdeyiwu，lirudanfudaliangdejiazhongmeirirenwu，zaihaizidejiaoyu、jiatingchengyuanguanxibaochidengcengmianwuxuzhangfucaolao。dangfajuezhangfuqingxubuwendinghou，caiyongshihedefangfaxiezhuqihuanjieyali。

 shijizhong，nianqingfufuchangchangweizhengzhifashengtichufenshoudezhuangkuang，bingbingbushihunyinpolie，dabufenshilianggerendexinggebaozao，chengdanledaliangdegongzuoyalimeiyouxuanxiezaochengde。congshizhishangshuo，zheileitichufenshoushiqinglvde，genjuxiubu，fenshouleyoulaianlianwoguanlianyekeyixiufu。xuduo qingkuangxia，ganqingxiufudezhongdianzaiyunvxingdexintai，jiarufashengletichufenshou，nvxingnenggourenrangyibu，jijixianglaogongshigonggaohaobingbiaoshuqianjiu，jianchibuxiejihuihou，zhangfuyehuibeichudong。