要分手了怎么挽回？对情感心寒了该怎么办?

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对情感心寒了该怎么办?怎么挽回一个对你心寒的情侣?

一、如何挽留一个对你心寒的人——自我完善

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二、如何挽留一个对你心寒的人——先把自己的情感略微放一放

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三、如何挽留一个对你心寒的人——要对情感开展思考

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四、如何挽留一个对你心寒的人——减少要求

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