分手后选择消失的一方，男生分手以后的三种心态

 henduorendouganjuenanshengjianlitichudetichufenshouquanshihenjuerande，yidantamenjiangchuneierzifangfozaimeiyouwanliudehenyoukeneng，wuqing、jueqing、jueqing......zheizhongdoubianchenglenanshengtexiangdetichufenshouyoucheng。danzhenzhidepubianxingbingbingbingbushineiyang，shijishangtabinigengweidanyoutichufenshou。nanrenfenshouweihebushanweixin？fenshouweihenandehaijiedianhua？zheixiedouweinitigonglewanhuidejihui，danshibunengbaozhengtahaiaini，jiuxiangfenshouhouxuanzexiaoshideyifangyebuyidingshitaoyanni。

01忧虑从头开始新感情

 henyoukenengninengshuo，nanrendoushifanqingde，jiaruoyongyouxindetiaoxuan，neitamengaoxingdouganbuji，naerhaihuijixuzaicizaiduyounaxiejiaolvni?shijishang，neiquanshinijiandaotadebiaoceng。gangfenshoushi，henyoukenengtaganjuezaiyicidedaolesuiyi，guozheneileikuangfangbujiderichangrichangrichangshenghuo，danshitamendexinlizhendeshineiyangma？

 zhenduinanshengeryan，mianbucaisuanshizuizhongyaode。yinci，tamenburongyirangsuoyourenjiandaotananguodemoyang，jiaruoliantichufenshoudouzhuyaobiaoxiangengenvshengyiyangyoukuyounaode，neitaneiyouzenyangjinjinweirao？niyibankanbujiantatongchu，shijishangshitamenduiganqingquanshilaoshihusiluanxiangde。

 tahenizaiyiqineimezhangjiuxing，wulunshiqingganhuoshirichangrichangrichangshenghuo，duinidouyingzaoleyizhongxiguanxing。nibawoquanshijienaxiejiaonanbiandongma？neibianshixiguanxing，taxiguanxingheniyiqiyongcan、xiguanxingheniyiqiguangjiegouwu、xiguanxingwuziliyounidexiaorong。

 erzheileixiguanxingnaizhishisuizhezhuanzhetayishengde，jiusuantakaishilexiayiduandeqinggan，yiranhuibujingyijiandiquzhenidexiguanxingqubizhaobiedenvsheng，ertanengpengdaodexiayigeren，haishifouhuiyunineibanaita，yehuoshigeweizhiliang。

02身旁的异性朋友屈指可数

 dajiahaizaiyiqideqingkuangxia，tachenzuizaiyunideerrenshijieli，jubeizheneirangrenjidudeganqing，hushileyubiedeyixingpengyoudeyiqiezhengchangxiangchu，zaiwuxingzhizhongyejudadidijiangdilejianshaochupengyixingpengyoudejiyu。

 dangmeileniyizhizaitashenpanghou，jiusuantayongxinzaiquqingrenlaitidaini，danshiyemeifayeshiyoujiyule。zhiqiantasuobawodenvsheng，neimezhangjiuxingbuchupenghou，lianggerendeguanlianyeyuelaiyuemosheng，zaixiangzaiyiciyunyingyebushineimefeichangrongyile。

03性别失调的现况

 shixiashehuifazhanchengzhenhuafazhandezhuangkuang，xingbiezhanbishidiaozaoyiyuelaiyueyanzhong，nanduonvshaozaoyisunhaidaoshehuifazhanchengzhenhuafazhandejiehunhoudeshenghuogouzao，yigenanrenyaoxiangyaoyigenvsheng，neijiushiyaozaodaozheshifendadeshichangdexuqiu。

 youqishizheiyizhuangkuangriyibijiaoyanzhongdezhuangkuang，talikainizhihou，haiyaojiaolvhainengfouzaixunzhaoyigeshihedenvpengyou。tangruonijiandaozheier，shifouduizishengengyouxinxinle？neishitaneimebuguyiqiedizhuiqiuni，jiuquedinglenidefengzi，jiaruotapobudeyifangqini，neijinjinnihenyoukenengzaipingfandeshenghuozhong，haofeilezishendezhiliang。

 jishu，chulinansheng，niyejiuwubinongqingchuruhequzhangworuanzhu，neiyangtacaihuiyoulvfangqini，congshizhizhongpeizainishenbian。fenshouhouxuanzexiaoshideyifangwangwangbushiaidezuishen，jiushishangdezuishen。nanrenfenshouweihebushanweixinyeyoukenengxiangjixuguanzhunideshenghuo。fenshouweihenandehaijiedianhuayeyoukenengdanxinniyoujishi，suoyidadanquwanhuiba！