女友说她一件事愈来愈心寒分手？相忘于江湖是分手吗？

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女友说她一件事愈来愈心寒分手，我该如何挽回她?

一、依据2个人的个性和不一样的生活方式换一种方式来交往

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二、说再好也不起作用，说十句花言巧语还比不上切切实实做一件事情

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