假如一个男人不爱你了，分手了就不要复合了？

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假如一个男人不爱你了，有哪些方式 能够挽留他?

一、拿得起放得下

 yigenanrenjueceleyunifenli，haowuyiwenyoutadeyuangu，woxiezhuanghounanpengyouyaofenshoubingqieshitalijingshenzhongkaolvzuochudejuece，kendingbingbushiyirufanzhangdetiaoxuan。yincizhenduizheiyijuece，nixuyaochongzudezhongshi，bubisipilailiandewanhuita。yeyouyuqingganyongyou xuduo dekebianxing，cairangtachongmanlezheimeduodepiaoliang，rangrendeneixinshengchongjing，rangziguyilaidechengqianshangwanwenrenyashiyinciluandao。nijiarusipilailian，woxiezhuanghounanpengyouyaofenshouzongshishitajuededaliangdeyanjuan，zhenduidajiadefuhexingyidianyichuyemeiyou。zhidaodajiadoulizhiyihou，zaiciqulianluota，yexuyeyouwanliudehenyoukeneng。

二、欲擒故纵

 zaiqingganli，qingshanggaodenvrenjueduibuhuihenanshenglijidikang，tamenzaipengdaobubiandeqingkuangxia，tongchanghuiyingyongyuqinguzongdefangfa，genjuzheileifangshi ，nenggouwanliunanrenxin。zaiqingganli，nvxingyizhiquanshiganzhiruoyidecunyou，fenshoulejiubuyaofuheletamenhuibazishifangdehendi，shijishangtashijiaowangdeyizhongfangshi，genjuchixudedaotui，keyibaqinggancongfengxiandebianyanlashanglai。nvxingxuehuileguanlizijideyaoqiuhexintai，jiuxiangdangyucaozonglenanshengdexingzi，yifangmianweihubaoyanglenanrendexinshenghelianmian，yifangmianyehuirangnanshenglibulezishen。zheileinanshengzhixufangqini，fenshoulejiubuyaofuhelehaowuyiwencongcizhaobuzheheshinidenvrenle，youyuzainideshouhouxia，tazaoyixiguannvxingdetuoxiele。

三、以诚待人

 yiduanqinggandejieshu，haowuyiwenbingbushimouyirendenanti，zhishiliangrendoucunzaidewenti，jiarunimeimingbaiyichengdairen，bumingbaijiejinsuonengdeweilingyifangsisuo，haowuyiwenhuichanshengfenqide。yincizaiwanliuyigenanrendeqingkuangxia，gennanshengfenshoudezuihaofangfayaoliuyiyichengdairen，lejietanayifangmianmeiyouhuodedadao，najigefangmiancunyouyihan，niyejiucongzheizhongcengmianqutianbuta，bubitaizitaomeiqugennanshengfenshoudezuihaofangfa，jiarutaqueshihenrenxing，niyejiubuyongtouruguoduolaiwanliule。jiarunijuedetahaifeichangzhidewanliu，niyejiugenjuzheileifangfaquwanliu，huoshihaiyoujihuide。