情侣之间争吵了闹提出分手?有因为抽烟而分手的吗?

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情侣之间争吵了闹提出分手，如何做才可以挽留将要丧失的感情?

一、跟另一方沟通交流彼此之间心里的真正念头

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二、防止冷暴力或是闹脾气，仅有小朋友才那样做

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