伤过了媳妇的心，有因为抽烟而分手的吗？

 nanyoufenshouhouhouhuidebiaoxianjiarunidequeshangguolelingyifang，neima，cikejiudeyaotiaoxuanshihedefangshiyouyinweichouyanerfenshoudema laiwanliulingyifang，jinyouneiyangcaikeyibaozhengwanliulingyifangdegailvgenggaoyixie，youxierenhenyoukenenghuijuedeneiyangzishenjiuyaoliangle，shijishangbushizheiyangde，youxierenhenyoukenengzaigenzishenxifujiaowangdeqingkuangxiabuzaiyilingyifangdetihui，zheiyangyilaibianhuizaochenglingyifangyinerbeixinhuiyileng，neima，jiuzongshixiaohaodiaolingyifangrangnidejiyu，zheiyangyilai，nidangranyejiumeilegenlingyifangzaiyiqidejiyu。neima，shangguolexifudexin，qingrenfenshouganyanxiangwanliutayingdangshuoxienaxie?

伤过了媳妇的心，想挽留她应当说些哪些?

一、先从盆友学起

 xuduoqingkuangxiaxifutiaoxuangennifenshouzhihouyiranhuitiaoxuangennidangpenyouqingrenfenshouganyan，wangwanghuineiyang，shiqidaikeyirangnizaiyicidejiyu，henyoukenengyoudenanxinghuijuedeneiyangshibutaikenengde，yincibuyuanyineiyangqugenlingyifangzuopengyou，qingrenfenshouganyankeshi，ruguonibuyuanyijilingyifangjiangxueyahuoshishitiaoxuanyuqinguzongdehua。

二、挑选理智或是分手一段时间

 jiarunidexifuduinidefumianqingxushifenbijiaoyanzhong，buyuanyijianniyebuyuanyijienindedianhua，neima，cikejiuxuyaotiaoxuanlengzanghuoshishifenshoudefangfa，rangzishenconglingyifangdequanqiuzhizhongxiaotui，youyinweichouyanerfenshoudemajiarunicikequjiuchanbuqinghuiranglingyifangganjuekunaohedichu，zheiyangyilaiwanliudegailvdangranbianhuiyouqidi，yinci，cikefenshoushiweilegenghaodikeyishinikeyigengqiangdezourulingyifangderichangshenghuozhizhong。

三、修补两人中间的信赖

 jiusuanshiqinggandecanpianhuodexiubu，keshi，youyinweichouyanerfenshoudemazaixiubuyihouyiranyaoxiangbanfaquchuangjianbicizhijiandexinlai，bunenggoulaoshiganjuelingyifangganlebaoqianzishendeshiererquxunchilingyifang，feidebierengennizhiqian，youyuneiyangzuoshimeiyoushenmeyiyide，ruguoninhaizaihugenlingyifangdeqinggan，qidaikeyizaicigenlingyifangrichangshenghuozaiyiqi，cikejiuxuyaoquchushijianlaigenlingyifangshuoshuoxinlihua，neiyangjiukeyirangliangrenderougedadedaochuli。

四、不必对付另一方

 youxierenhenyoukenenghuitiaoxuanyiyanhaiyandefangfaquduifulingyifang，danglingyifangbeishangguoxinzhihoubianhuiyouyuxinrusihuiersheqijiazhong，yinci，cikeyixienanshengbianhuiyaoxiangxiangbanfaquwanliulingyifang，keshi，neiyangduiwanliushangguoxindexifushimeishenmeyongde，youyucikehenyoukenenghuirangzaoyishifenmingandeqingganyineryuelaiyuegengweidemingan。

五、少说话多办事

 nvxingzaitiaoxuansheqihunyinshenghuodeqingkuangxiafumianqingxuhenyanzhong，nanyoufenshouhouhouhuidebiaoxianruguoniyizhizaicikerengzaichixudeshuowanhuidehuayuhuoshishiyizhiliaoganqingdehua，buranjiuhenyoukenenghuiyouyumeiyouzhangwohaowanliudefangshi erzaochengzishengenlingyifangdeguanlianyineryuelaiyueyulaiyushengshu，naizhihenyoukenenghuiyouyuneiyangerlijizaochengnigenlingyifangchedibianchengluren，yidanneiyang，niyejiuzhiyoutiaoxuanrenshu。nanyoufenshouhouhouhuidebiaoxianneima，zheihuiranglingyifanghendichugennixianliao，yehuihendichugennizaicichupeng，yinci，cikeyaozuodebianshiranglingyifangjuedezishenjijizhudongzhengliandeqingkuang，neiyangcaikeyirangtadebumanqingxujianshao。