挽回前男友的重要心态，分手伤心的话如何说？

 niaoniaochuiyanqile，wozaidamenkoudengni。xiyangxixiale，wozaishanshangdengni。yepianfahuang，wozaishudixiadengni。yueerbianwan，wozaishiwudengni。mianmianxiyulaila，wozaisanxiadengni。shuiliudongle，wozaishuiandengni。xingmingtaileile，wozairenjiantiantangdengni。dajianianjidale，wozailaishidengni。ruguonixiangzhefenshoulezenmewanliu，neifenshouhouqianwanbieshannanpengyou，yaoburanfenshoushangxindehuafapengyouquanleyemeirenkan。

 ganqing，benyingganyuanpingpingdandan，queyoubupingpingdandan；benyingganyupingfan，queyoufeifan。buhuizaiquxiangguoqu，buhuizaizhizheyiqian。

一：先爱自己

 dajiadoutingguotamen：“zaimishangsuoyourenyiqian，xianaiziji”yidannixunzhaozhenzhenzhengzhengaizijidefangfayihou，niyejiububikaoyikaotarenlaizhengshizishendeshiyongjiazhile。

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二：情感共鸣拉申

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 xuduonvxingzhenduiqingganyunyingzhong，zuibushanyudebianshixiaoshouhuashuxianliao，yincijinanyouchengxiandeqingkuangbianshizishentaimenhenwuliao，fandaoyixiegengnengtiaodounanshengxintaidenvxinghuigengweizaoshounanshidezhuiqiuwanmeiherentong，zheiyeganghaoshiyingyonglexintaiduiliaotianneirongdedutexing。

三：提高自己的恋爱等级

 youshi，lianaidengjidebutaigao，jiumeifalejiehechuaicelingyifangzaixiangganshenme，yaoxiangdeyoushisha，erzheigeshihoutongchangjiubuqingchuzenyanggenlingyifanggoutongjiaoliuhehuifulingyifang。yinciruguoxianggenlingyifangjiaowangdehemu，jiuxuyaotishengzijidelianaidengji。nixuyaozuodebianshixuehaoqukexueyanjiuguanjiandian，bianshizixiguanchalingyifangdegerenxingweihezishi，zailijingzishendepouxi，bingzuochushihedehuifu。