怎么再次挽回男友制冷的心?分手后怎样祝生日快乐?

 nanpengyougenwoshuofenshouleshuowomenbuheshifenshouzhihou，niyaomeiyouxunzhaozuihaoshidelianxidianhua，fenshouhouzenyangzhushengrikuailedoumeiyoutaiduodeyuanyinlailianluolingyifang，yinerniconglaimeiyoukeyitiejinta。wanliuzhongkenengshixialiezheijigefangmiannongluanlenideguocheng，nanrenfenshouhoudefanganqijiaruniyaoxiangwurelingyifangdexin，neimaxialiezheijigefangmianniwubiyaolejie：

情感发生裂开后该怎么再次挽回男友制冷的心?

沟通协调能力

 tidaogoutongdejiqiao，diyidianwubijiushinideshuohuayishu。jugeshili，nanrenfenshouhoudefanganqijiarunidouhaimeigenjusuodingqi，niyejiuzaoyijianjiandizhujianyoudianeryanjuanle，yizhixianghetajianghua。shijishang，tashibutaikenengyidianshijixiaoguode。nanrenfenshouhoudefanganqitayiranhaizainuqizhizhong，duininyoudichudejuede，nizaishuoshenmetadoutingbujin。

 shuohuadejiqiaojiushinizuixianyidingyaotiaoxuanqiadangdejiaotanshijian。jiarunimeiyoutiaoxuanqiadangdejiaotanshijian，neimanichangshuodebingbuzhongyao。nigangtichufenshoubingshuoninengweitagenggai。nirenweiruguonishitahuijianxindehua，tahaowuyiwenhuiganjuenishiyuanjunzhiji，yinertakehaowuyiwenburongyiyuanyide。yincibuguanniduomedezhenxinshiyiheyouchengxin，douburongyiyouyidiandianshijixiaoguode，shuobutaihaohaihuijixugongkuiyikui。

 shijianduide，niwubitiaoxuanyigetupokou，xianyongbiedewupinlaichuangjiannizhongjiandelianluo，jinkenengbubihelingyifangdataojinhu，yidannidezhuangkuangbuwending，henkenenghuichuxianbuduandezhuangkuang，tahenyoukenengyouhuibazijiyuwaibuzugeqilai，ninengbuchenggong。

社交能力

 shuobailedegongqinggongzuonenglibianshiniyichangluojisiwei、buzunzhongshishidefasansiweizuiyouxiao，fenshouhouzenyangzhushengrikuailezuilijirendeneixindegoutongjiaoliu，ruguonizaichangshangshi，ninengzhengqueyindaolingyifangdebufa。ninengbaozhengzheileishijixiaoguo，kendingshiyouzishendexiaojiqiaode，huanjuhuashuo，nirujinjiulejietale。bixuyixiewupin，yincizuizhongyaodeshi，niruhezhengquedequjiejuekunnancaisuanshizuihaoshide。

 taxuyaoshenmeniyejiujiyunaxie，niyejiunenggousuishisuidibawotadexin，fenshouhouzenyangzhushengrikuaileneiyanghaihuijixuwanliubuchenggongma。yaobaozhengzheiyidian，niwubixiangtuiliyouxiyiyangjiechutadeneixinmituan。taweiheduinizhongjiandeqingganjuedexinhan，weishenmebukeyijiandaonideqingganzhongjiandeqidai?

 niweitasuozuodeyiqiehenyoukenengbingbingbushilingyifangqidaikandaode，huoshitaneixinyougengqiangdezhunbei，zheizhongnidouxuyaonongdeqingxiyixie，neiyangnizhongjiandeaicaiyouyinrandeqidai，erciyouhuolibianshinibixubuyigehaodeju，bingbushikaoyigetouxingdegenggai，jiukeyiercixiyin，nikanqilaijianyidexingwei，qishishichongchizheconghui。

发展工作能力

 shitajiandaonidefazhangongzuonengliyehenzhongyao。nanpengyougenwoshuofenshouleshuowomenbuheshifenshouzhihou，youderenhuimashangyuelaiyuexiaochen。tashizuiyumeide，yincijiufangfoniduitashuonidefazhangongzuonenglihencha，erbushininyouzishendechengzhangkongjian。dangtajuedetahuishinijuedeshifenyoushangshi，nifandaobizhiqiangengqiang，tabianhuiguanxinni。

 rendebenxingquanshineiyangde。tahuiganjuezishendefengcaibuzu，nijingranhaodezheimekuai，niyidingbingbushishenaizheta，huoshishiyanzangyoushang，ruguonizaochengtadeqiuzhiyu，niyejiuzaoyichenggongleyiban，tabianhuijiji，nanpengyougenwoshuofenshouleshuowomenbuheshihuoshilijingnidegouyinhuizaiyicitaruniderichangshenghuo，erqieyouzhezuihaoshidefangfahezhaoshu，tanengtaolima?