女朋友要分手，要分手了怎么挽回

yaofenshoulezenmewanhui？neixiewanhuifenshoudewenanbuzaishaoshu，keshiaiqinglinayouyingjia，buguoshiliangbaijushangdefenshoule。nvyouyaofenshouwanliunenggougenjuyuqinguzong、zhaodaoliangrenfenshoudezhenzhenzhengzhengyuanyin、congyuantoushangjiangliangrenmaodundeyuanyinzuochugaijindengcengmiankaizhanwanliu。erqieyaoliuyijihui，bukeyiyiweidekaizhanxinxineirongsaorao。

1、欲擒故纵

yibanyizhengchaodefangfafenshoude，yaoxiangwanliuguanlian，jiuxuyaoxianbaozhenglingyifangcongzhengchaodebulizhixintaizhongbaituo。zaifangzhimaodunehuadepengyou，gengyaojiangdishixiaodehudongjiaoliu。maixiafubigongzuozhongwanchengleyihou，xiamianbianshifulianle。

2、找到两人分手的真真正正原因

zuixian，wulunsheimingquetichudefenshou，doubiaomingliangrenzhongjianshicunyouzheyixiebunengdiaohedemaodunde，ermaodundezaochengjuebujinhuishiyinweiyigerendenanti，yinciyouliangdeziwofansibenshen，kanyixiazishenyounaxiediqushizuodebutaihaodediqu，jijizhudongchayanbingduofangmianjiuzheng。

3、从源头上将两人矛盾的原因做出改进

zaizhaodaoxiangduiyingdeyuanyinyihou，bianshiyaoyijuzheizhongmaodunyaosuzuochugaijinle。bubimangmugenfengdegaibianxianzhuangerchedibiandemeiyouzhujian，danyeyidingyaojiangyixietachibuxiaodequexiandouwanquangaizheng，lirugongzhubing，zhangkongyudengxianzhedequexianhemaodunhaiyaoliuyi。

4、花时间治伤

zhenduiyiqiefenshoudenanhaihenvhaizheiyidianshihenzhongyaode。jilingyifangchuanqideshijian。biejitatongdianhua，bieduanxiaoxijita，buguanduosikaotadouqukankanta。guanjianshi，jiarunidechuangkouhaimeyouquanyu，neimeniyejiuburongyiqudechenggong。bingqie，zaizheiduanshijianli，niyenenggouxiangqingxi，nidaodishifouqueshixianghetazaiyiqi，huoshiyouyutaiyikao，yincinirongrumeiyoutaderichangshenghuo。

5、等候3周

zaicichuangjianqinggan，zuihaoshitongdianhuajita，erbushifaxinxi，youyufaxiaoxinanyifenbiandajiadeyudiao。bingqie，zaiduozaitabutaikenengjietingdianhuashidajita。zaiyuyinxinxiangliuyiduanbuwenbuwendekouxin，jiufangfoduitashuo：nixiaiqudeliansuobianlidianyouzhekouzhutihuodong，woshilaiduinishuode。niyaoshitalejieniyizhizaixiangta，keshiniquebunengshuochuqu。

6、心态积极主动

lianluodequanguochengzhongniyaoyizhiweichijijizhudongdexintai，bubiqutantaodajiafenshoutongchudeqingkuangxia。yidandajia2gezhujianyuelaiyuenankan，neimezhaoyigetuociliquba。zuizhongyaodeshi，niyaogouqitadekaixinqingkuang。

7、坦诚相对性