和男朋友冷战多久算分手，怎么妙手挽回？

 nanpengyoushuofenshouhainengwanhuima？xiangxinzheihuishixuduonvshengzaibeifenshouhouzuixianghuozhidenanti。benrenweixianghuzhijianhuibuduanlanmanxingfudejiaowangxialai，danzhongjianzongyouyuzhuduonantierchanshengmaodun，naizhizainimeishenmezhengzhaodezhuangkuangxiananpengyouquemingquetichulefenshou，neimenvshenghaowuyiwenhuijuedeyouqimangranhewunai，henanpengyoulengzhanduojiusuanfenshou？ruguolengzhanleyiduanshijian，qishidajiahuijuedehefenshouwuyi。neifenshouhouhaixianglianxita，keshifenshouhounanyoubujiedianhuabuhuixinxizenmeban？

一、面对感情中的分歧

 xuduonvshengfenshouhoudoushihuiwen，zenyangcaikeyiwanhuiquyiyijuedenanpengyou？shijishangdangyiduanganqinggaoshangfenshoudechengdu，jiubiaomingdajiazhongjianzaojiucunyoulenanti，eryaoxiangrangganqingjinzaozaiciranshao，xiufuguoqudetianmeixingfu，zuixiannijiuxuyaomianduiganqingdefenqi，xunzhaonantidequanjuxingyuangu，zaijiyuyiyichuli，neiyangcaikeyinenggougenghaodihuajiemaodun。

二、掌握另一方的要求

 zaiyiduanganqingli，zhangwobanlvzhenzhenzhengzhengbixudeshishenme、taduihuaxuewuzhideyaoqiujiqixinlizhuangtaideyaoqiujiujingshishenmezhiguanzhongyao。youyuneiyangnicaikeyicongyuantoushangzhangwota。erlingyifangwangwangtiaoxuanfangqini，tongchangyeshiyouyunibingbumingbailingyifangdeyaoqiushishenme。buzhijiarubanlvyagenbumingbainixuyaodeshishenme，niyaoxiangiphone，taqueyizhirangnili，neiyangdeganqingzhongjiuburongyizhangqi。

三、接纳伴侣的有缺憾

 dangdajiazaiyiqideqingkuangxia，nishibushihuichangchangbatanatarenlaizuobijiao，bingqieyizhibujingyidebiandita，yanlidajitadexinxin？jiaruzhendeshineiyang，neimefeichangdanantishichuzaizheierle。youyuhuanzuoyiqieyigeren，douburongyixiaibeijiaowei，hekuangzheigerenshizishenyizhiaizhedebanlv。yinciyaoxuehaojienabanlvdeyouquehan，meiyousuoyourenyushengjulaiqiaruqifen，hekuanglianrenyuanbenbianshixianghuzhijiankuanrong、huxiangzhaogu、yitongchengzhangdeguocheng。jinyouruguonizhenzhenzhengzhenglijielezaiqizhongdedadaoli，nicaiyougenggaodehenyoukenengwanhuita。henanpengyoulengzhanduojiusuanfenshouhaishiyaokanzhijianyoumeiyoujihuiwanhui。fenshouhounanyoubujiedianhuabuhuixinxiqishibingbudaibiaomeiyouwanhuijihui，kenengshiduifanghaizainaopiqi。fenshouhouhaixianglianxitajiuyongganditachuwanhuidiyibu。