分手后男友不接电话不回信息，怎样才能挽留？

 dangnanpengyoumingquetichufenshou，ernvshengyouxiangbaochiguanlianshi，qiadangdebiaoshuganqingjiubianchengganqingqudechenggongdeguanjianzhongyao，henanpengyoulengzhanduojiusuanfenshou？ruguolengzhanleyiduanshijian，qishidajiahuijuedehefenshouwuyi。neifenshouhouhaixianglianxita，keshifenshouhounanyoubujiedianhuabuhuixinxizenmeban？

1.接纳分手以清除工作压力

 xuduonvshengdoumeifajienafenshouhoufenshoudekeguanshishi。tamenyibianyouyibianditongdianhua，buduanshuo：“wozuobuduinaxie？niweishenmeyuwofenshou？”，huanjuhuashuo：“wodecuode，woqueshibudui，wobuganzairuhezenmela。”

 shubuzhijieguoshinanpengyoudeyanfandupingxingxianlazhang，zuizhonglijiheileta。erqienvshengzuizhonglianzishencuozainaerdoubuqingchu，zhiyoumeirikukudididachedequjiuchanbuqingnanpengyou，danneiyangbingbukeyiwanhuinanpengyou。

 xiangxiangyixia，dajiazaiyiqizheimeduonian，douhaimeichajuezijidenantimeiyougenggai。rujinnishuonihuijiuzheng，huijianxin。danniyaoxianggenggaibenshendequexianshibixushijiande，nanpengyouzaiduxiaishangnishibixushijian，yincidajiabixuyigefenshoudelizhisisuoqi。

 zheigeshihou，nidejiuchanbuqing、yaoqiu、biaoshu，jinjintishenglenanpengyoudegongzuoyali，rangnanpengyougengweilixing，yunifenshou。yincizheigeshihouzuihaoshidefangfabianshihuanjieyaliliangrendeguanlian，jinanpengyoushijianhekongjian。

2.发现问题，解决困难

biaocengshangkankenengshizhengchao、bufuheyinqiledajiadefenshou，danshishishangfenshoushidajiaguanlianzhongnantideleijidaozhide。

 yinci，zainihuanjieyalidequanguochengzhong，nizuixianyaozuodebianshizhaodaodajiafenshoudeyuangu，zhaodaozishendenantihedajiaguanlianzhongdenanti，bingxunzhaochulidefangfa。buran，jibianduanqiguanxixiufu，yebuhuizhangqi。

3.提高自己，呈现自身

faxianwentihou，yidingyaoxunzhaochulidefangfa，nixuyaoxiangdaoyigejianquandejihuafanganlaitishengzijidefengcai。

 congrongmaodegenggaixiashou，rangzishenyuelaiyuegengyouqizhi，gengyoufengcai，lingwaigenggaizishendequedian，liruyiziwoweizhongxin，qingxubuwending，buchengshuzheixie。

 ninenggenjushejiaowangluopingtailaixiangdahuoerzhanxianquanxinshengjidezishen，suihougaopinzhidezhanxiannideshenghuozhuangtai，buzhibujuerangnanpengyoujiandaonidezhuanbian，duinidemeihaoshenghuochongchizhehaoqixin。

4.从同学关系从头开始

 xiangwanliuyiduanqinggangaizenmeban？woyebuzhidaogaizenmezuocaikeyijiejiuwodelaogong。zaiwanhuiyunanpengyoudezuikaishilianluoshi，jinjibubixinfuqizao，yaoyiyibanpengyoudezhenshishenfenlianluo，neiyangnanpengyounengxuehuifangxiajiebeixin。

 chengxiannidegenggai，caozongnidebixugan，zhengqueyindaonanpengyouduiniyouganjue，tishengnanpengyouduinidebixugan，zhujianhelixingta，nanpengyouyouaishangleni。henanpengyoulengzhanduojiusuanfenshouhaishiyaokanzhijianyoumeiyoujihuiwanhui。fenshouhounanyoubujiedianhuabuhuixinxiqishibingbudaibiaomeiyouwanhuijihui，kenengshiduifanghaizainaopiqi。fenshouhouhaixianglianxitajiuyongganditachuwanhuidiyibu。