和男朋友冷战多久算分手，分手后成功挽回的方法

 ganqingdetianmeiyizhilingrenxingfukuaile，dantianmeizhongzonghuiyoukuwei。henanpengyoulengzhanduojiusuanfenshou？ruguolengzhanleyiduanshijian，qishidajiahuijuedehefenshouwuyi。neifenshouhouhaixianglianxita，keshifenshouhounanyoubujiedianhuabuhuixinxizenmeban？

一、挽回最重要的是坚信自己的分辨

 nizhiyoucanzhaohelijietarendeyijianyujianyi，danbukeyimangmugenfengweihaizishenxinlidefenbian。bierenshuodehao，shuodedui，danneileifangshibuyidingheshidajiajiaowang。

 bierenshuo：“wenwanyidian”，henyoukenengninanyouzaixiang“wohenxihuantadelvzhi，bangwoyidianlejiehekuanrongjiuxing”。yeyourenshuo：“nanshengbuyinggaixiguanxing。”，henyoukenengninanyouzaixiang“tafeichanghao，keshitaiqiangle，jushuwosangshisuiyi。”。suihouniyejiuhuimingbai，bierenshuodebuyidinghehudajiadeguanlian。nixuyaochongzuzhangwotayutadexinli，mingbaitazuixiangyaoninaxie。huoxujinjinzaitagongzuozhongtaileileyihou，nichengxinchengyidejitamenqibeicha，shuoyiju“nixinkule”，tabianhuiruyuanyichang，henkaixin，erbushibutingdemaiyuanhuoshibiaoshitajiawulaodong。

 zhengsuowei“yigerenyinshui，lengnuanziru”，yingdangganxietarendegaojie，yipengjidexintaikandai。bubijizhedaoyiyuan。tingjianbierenshuoyixieyoudaolidehua，rutongbawozhule“yigendaocao”。zheixiehuayoudaoli，danyeyingdangshiyongni。jibiankeyong，haiyaoyongzishendefangfachucun，rangzishenyishunjianzuochujuece，suihouyongheshizishenqichanghexiangchumoshidefangfachucun。

 zaishengengbanye，nanhaizihuixiang：“niyaowolemei？”，dangtahuranjiandaonindedianhuashi，tahuihenjidong。“yuanxiantaneixinyizhiyouwo。”suihouzhuyaobiaoxianchuzishendezhenxinshiyi，tadongxindishuo，“taxiangyaoshuoaiwo，xiangyaolejiewo，wozaiyebunengcuoguo。”

二、存最避讳迟疑不坚决

 youyubujueshiyijiankongbudeshier。huihaofeinideshijianhehuoli。xuduoqingkuangxia，nishijishangyouwanhuideniantou。keshijuedezixinxinguoxiao，buqingchuyingbuyinggaiwanhui。xuduonvhaidanxinganqingdejianglaibudezhi，yincichixuzhengxunnvyouheqinrendejianyi，qipanhuodedaliangdejiliquwanhui。nilejie，xianzaishixiufudehuangjinshijian。yidandangelejiyu，jiufeichangrongyicuoguolezheiyinannengkeguidejiyu。henanpengyoulengzhanduojiusuanfenshouhaishiyaokanzhijianyoumeiyoujihuiwanhui。fenshouhounanyoubujiedianhuabuhuixinxiqishibingbudaibiaomeiyouwanhuijihui，kenengshiduifanghaizainaopiqi。fenshouhouhaixianglianxitajiuyongganditachuwanhuidiyibu。