多年的感情，怎么挽留男朋友不分手

 qianbujiu，zhihushangyouyigehuatitaolun：henduoniandeganqing，fenshouhougairuhewanhui？shuoqueshide，henduoniandeaiqingzhangpao，dequeyedaoxiangqinjiehundenianling，ercikedaozhidezeshifenshou，neimehaowuyiwenlianggerenzhongjiandoucunyouyoushenmewenti。fenshouhouzuopengyouduiyuzhenxinaiguodeqinglvlaishuo，shizaishinan，danqueyoujiwanhuiliulegejihui。mianduichaojiaqingyishuofenshoudenanren，xiangzhidaoyaozenmewanliunanpengyoubufenshou，xiamianhuazhenxiaobianweinifenxi。

1、给另一方思索的时间

 zaiyiqishijianzhangle，jianxinduibicizhijiandoushiyouyidingdezhangwo。yinciwulunshirichangshenghuo，huoshirichanggongzuoshang，yidanjiejuebutaihao，quanshijiqifeichangrongyizaochengmaodunde，erwomenyaozuode，bianshizaichulizheizhongnantidequanguochengzhong，nengjiyulingyifangsisuodeshijian，bubibalingyifangbideguojin，yaoburanzongshiranglingyifangzaochengyaoxiangtaochudexin。

2、不必总揪着难题不放

 xuduolianrenzaipengdaomaodunshi，douxiaijiuzhenantibufang，naizhihaihuijixuchixudebanantibianda，shikedianjizhe：tadaoxianzaiyebuquwo，shifoubuaiwole；tarujinhaiyijianshinaopiqi，shifoubuyuangenwozaiyiqile……erzheiyixiliedenantikunhuonishi，nidoushihuiduizheiyiduanganqingyuelaiyuedebuxinren，yincininengbazheizhongbawodesisidi，xiangjinbanfazhengshitashiaizhenide。danyezhengyouyunineiyang，caihuiranglingyifanggengweidichuni。

3、适度改变自己

 jiaruhenduonianzhijin，douyitongyizhongxiangchumoshiqurichangshenghuo，huanzuodaodishisheidoushihuiyanfan。yincidajiahenbixushengchanzhizaoganqingzhongdeshenmigan，shidugaibianzijidejianghuajiqibanshishejifengge，zaipengdaomaodunshi，quelizhengchaodeyuangu，baozhengduizhengzhiliao，zaipingchangrichangshenghuo，haiyaobaozhengduoyulingyifanggoutongjiaoliu，duoxuehaohuanweisikaoyixia，lejielingyifangdezuofa，zaipengdaomaodunshi，yebubisuibianshuofenshou，zhishiduiyunantijiyuchuli。