lianaideqingkuangxiananpengyoujiangnidangzuobao,pengzaishoushangpashuaile,hanzaizuilipahuale。zaipeiyiyanqianhuoshisixiadoushifenxiangai。zhihoudajiayouyuyixieyuangufenshou,nichajuezijihuoshishenaizheta,renzhendiwanliuhouquefajuedajiadeqingganburucongqian。xiangwangyujianghushifenshouma?chengran,buhaipachaochaorangrangdeouduansilian,zuihaipapingdanrushuidelikai。ganqingzhongdeqinglvchangchangyinweigezhongjimaosuanpideshifenfenhehe,biruwoxiezhuanghounanpengyouyaofenshouzenmeban?buxiangfenshounanyouweixiezenmeban?huazhenkanguowushuxingxingsesedeanli。fuhehouruheduguolengdanqini?jiaonizhongxinqidongganqing,zhaodaoganqingzuikaishidexingfu。
1.操纵本身的需求感,提升本身使用价值
zailianaizhongxuduonvshengxiangyaoshikeheaiderenzaiyiqi,wuluntashibushiyougongzuozhongyaomang,youpenyouyaojian。guoqulereliantabianhuizhujianfan。meiyigerendoubixuzishenyurenxiangchudeshijian,hebuduojibicizhijianyixieshineikongjianjiejuezishendeshier。daobutongbuxiangweimou,youlinshidefenlicaihuikanqilaixiangfenggengweibaogui。nixuyaojiangdizishendexuqiugan,bawozhudaoquan,shitajijilianluoni。
2.达到另一方的本质要求
xiaozuoyiqingyangxingshouyoudazuoshangshenti。shidudemaimengnenggoutishengshenghuolequ,zengjialianggerenzaiyiqidelequ。keshishibukanchanghefenbuqingshixiangdezuo,manbujianglijiuhenlingrendichu。youqishinanxingchuzaigongzuozhongfazhanqideqingkuangxia,gongzuofangmiantayouhenduoshierbixujiejue。nibujinbukeyijitamenzuozhuxingu,yeyaoshitahuashijianhongzhe。dexuetinghua,zuolingyifangdezhuxingu,ranglingyifangyingyongquchuang。
3.接受现实,有错就改是基本
fuheyihouzuizhongyaodeshiyaogaizhengzaochengfenshoudequexian,ruguobujiuzhenghenkenenghaihuijixubianchengdajiazaidufenlideyuangu。jiushiqianwanbieti,bicizhijianjieshouxianshi,bayanguanghuanguyujianglai,duochajuezijilianrendeshenshangdeyoushi,duozanyang,ranglingyifanglejienishiyouzaiguanzhuta,zhenxinshiyidizaihaowuyiwenta。zheinengfeichanghaodituidongdajiadeguanlian,qudechenggongduguofuhehoudelengdanqi。
4.维持有效沟通
goutongjiaoliushineixindegongluqiaoliang。jinyougoutongjiaoliule,bicizhijiandexincaikeyikaodegengjin,caikeyigengzhangwolingyifang,gaoqingchulingyifangdeyaoqiu,suihouwanglingyifangdelixiangxingkanqi。fuhehouduguolengdanqigoutongjiaoliushihenbixude,nengrangdajiazhuiyiwangridexingfu,zhaodaotanlianaizuikaishidezaodong。
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