和男朋友同居，怎么挽回分手的他？

 gennanyoutongjushenghuo，renweiqingganlaidaoxindehuanjie，limaijinhunyinshenghuoshengdianmeiduojiule。quezaitongjushenghuoshenghuozhongpululezhenzhengdebicizhijian，taiaijinyuelaiyuemeiyoureqing，gezhonggeyangmocazhengzhi，zuizhongtichufenshou。nvshenggennanyoutongjushenghuofenshouzhihoukuideshizishen，zheiyishehuifazhanduinvshihuoshishifenyankede，xuduonanhaizibukeyijienayoutongjushenghuoshidenvsheng。keshiyeshiyouhaodediqu，tongjushenghuonenggouxiankanyixiabicizhijianshibuyiyiqishenghuo，denghunhouzaifajuebuyijiutaiwanle。bingbushinanrenfenshoujibenwanhuibule，haixuyaokannimenshizhenxingfenshouhaishijiaxingfenshou。neimezenmewanhuifenshoudeqianren？xiamianhuazhenxiaobianweinifenxiwanhuigaizenmezuo，jishishizhenxingfenshouwanhuiyekeyiyongshang。

1.保存私人空间，增加神秘感

 wuluntongjushenghuoshifou，nvshengdouxuyaobaohuhaoziji。meiyouzhunbeihaohuaihaizijiuxuyaogaohaoanquanfangfancuoshi。xunzhaoshihedetongjushenghuofangfa，rangliangrendounenghuodejunheng。hebutongjushenghuodeqingkuangxiajibicizhijianyidiansirenkongjian，lirutazaiyangtaixiyan，niyizhizaiwuziqukanshu。tazaiwuziwanyouxi，ninengzaidaketingzhuiju。fenbiezuofenbiedeshier，bubiyizhizhandaoyiqi。huoshiyizhouyouertianshizishendegerenshijian，hetafenliertian，huigengxiwangxiamianhetazaiyiqideshijian。suhuashuodehao“jiubieshengxinhun”。

2.自立自强，降低依附心理状态

 zaitanlianai，hunyinshenghuoshangdoubukeyifangzongziji，weizhulingyifangzhuan，jiankongtadeyijuyidong，caijitadesixu，rangzishenyuelaiyueshenjingdatiao。yaoyouzishendeshenghuo，penyou，fengfuduocaizishendeshejiaoquan，jiejuezheileiyifubierendexinlizhuangtai，shitalejie，meiyoutanideshenghuorengranshiduozhongduoyangde。wanshandetanlianaifangshiyinggaishi：zaiyiqishikaixindizaiyiqi，fenlishihaiyaofenbiedanduguohaozishendeshenghuo。

3.家务分派清楚，回绝进到“家庭保姆方式”

 nibushitadejiatingbaomu，lingwaiyebubibatadangzuobaomuyiyangzhishita。zhidinghaojiawumingxi，fenpaihaoyaozuodejiawu，xielijinxing。rangbicizhijiandoushiyoucanyuxinghemanzugan，hainengganshoudaoyiqizuojiawudekuaile，tigaoqinggan。

4.制订交往标准，让彼此之间都接纳

 chuangjianchengchutizhi，jiaruzuodehaojiuhuiyoujiangshang。zuodebutaihaoyehuichuxianxiangduiyingdechufa，liruzuoduoyidianjiawuhuoshidayouxideshijianyuelaiyueshaodeng。zenmewanhuifenshoudeqianrenbujinjinxuyaoyongdaofangfa，tianshidilirenheyebibukeshao，suoyoubuyongdanxinnanrenfenshoujibenwanhuibule，zhenxingfenshouwanhuiyequdadandiwanhuiba！