女友说分手还能挽回吗？怎么哄女朋友？

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1.积极主动负责任

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2.试着让她开心高兴

 nvshenghenlixing。tamenqianyimiaorengzainanguo，houyimiaojiunengkaixindihahadaxiao。nanshengtongchangmobutounvshengdexin，yincinanshengnanyilejienvshengdeniantou。bubijitamenhendagongzuoyali。nenggoushizheyongxiexiaoqiaomendounvshenggaoxing。nvshengfahuodeqingkuangxia，nanshengnenggouhuranjinvshengjiangyigexiaohuaduanzi，huoshiduinvshengshuo:“shangpin，buyaoshengqi。”jiaruliangrengezhiyiduan，neimezheicizhengzhishizhongburongyiwanbi。nanshengnenggouxuezhejinvpengyoujiangyixieshunkouliu，liru:“meiyicijiandaonifahuodemoyang，doushihuixinlvlouleyipai。shinajiadexiaohaizineimetaorenxihuan。”

3.给她相拥和宽慰

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4.试着约她