如何高效挽回前男友？男生想分手该不该挽回？

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1.终止低下取悦，减轻他的工作压力

 heqianrenfenshouzhihou，chixuduilingyifangzuochugezhonggeyangjiuchanbuqinggerenxingwei，zongshiranglingyifanggengweiguoduandefangqini，youyunidedishiyongjiazhizhuyaobiaoxianhuiranglingyifangjuedeyanfan，tishengfourennideniantou，juedeyunitichufenshoushiqiadangdetiaoxuan，dannifengchengdegerenxingweibingbuhuituidongnidewanhui，fandaohuijiazhonglengzangdajiadeguanlian。lingyifangyongyouziwokendingyihou，huiganjuenidegerenxingweishizaijitamenzengjiafeichangdadegongzuoyali，yaoxiangduobi。yinci，zhongzhidijianquyuehedishiyongjiazhidewanhui，huanjielingyifangdegongzuoyali，shijishangshizaibangniweizhihoudewanhuijieshuixingzhou。

2.心态调整，学好换位思考一下

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3.改变现状