分手后想挽回她，怎么做才能挽回女友

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1.防止重复犯错

 jiranhaiyoujihuizaiyuehui，nidepinpaixingxiang，shenghuopinzhi，yantanjuzhizheixiedoubukeyihetichufenshouqianyiyang。ruguonijuedezheizhongshiqingbuzaihu，neimelingyifangyehuiduinibuzaihu。zhengyouyunihezhiqianbuyiyangle，caihuizaochenglingyifangdeliuyi。nidegenggainengxiyinzhulingyifangdezhuanzhuli。ciwai，yuehuideqingkuangxiayaoliuyibubitidaoyiwang，buranhenyoukenengliangrendouwufakongzhizishendexintai，youyuyiwangdefenqizaochengzhengzhi。

2.心态调整，举动文明礼貌

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3.回绝“跪舔男”

 yuehuideqingkuangxiabunengshuorangtayougongzuoyalidehua，liru:“shijishangfenshouzhihouwohaishiaizheni，”henkenengrangtadichu。shijishangzaiyuehuiquanguochengzhong，nenggouliaoyiliaojinqichanshengdeshiqing，youyunidezhuanbianhuiranglingyifangzaochenghaoqixin，erliaozheizhongshijianchanshengdeshiqingnenggouzhengqueyindaolingyifangtishengduinidexingquaihao。ninenggaozhitanijinqideduocaishenghuo，nidezhuanbian，niduitadezhunbei，rangtaduiniyouxiwanggan，tigaotaduinidexingquaihao。

4.切忌自身感动

 xuduonanhaizirenweizuoyixiezishenjuedehuigandonglingyifangdeshiqingjiuwanshiruyile，quebuqingchuzheizhongshuobailedegandongjinjinni“gerenganjueyouliang”。jilao，bubiyizhiyiziwoweizhongxin。nigandongle，budaibiaolingyifangyekeyigandong。niganshoudaodelanman，henyoukenengzailingyifangneixinmeisuannaxie。jinguanyouyixieqiadangdegandonghenyoukenengbuxianzhe，dantamenshiyirichangshenghuoguanjiandianlifanyingchuqude。gandongbudaibiaohuaxuewuzhi，nixuyaoyidiandianfajuelingyifangdeqiadangyaoqiu，tishenglingyifangduinidehaogandu。fenshouhouxiangwanhui，neixiefenshouhouwanhuinvyoudehuazhinengjizuodaojinshangtianhua，buxiangfenshouzenmewanhuizhenzhengxuyaodehaishiyishangfangfa。