不用分手后挽回女友的话，也能让你化被动为主动

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1.剖析分手原因

 zaidajiafenlideqinei，jingxialaiqiadangpouxifenshouyuanyin，bubiqingxubuwending，xianghaolazaizuojueding。xunzhaoliangrenfenshoujiaodadenantihou，fanshengzijizaijiaowangquanguochengzhongdebuzhengquehecunzaidebuzu。renzhenfansiyihou，niduidajiazhongjiandeguanlianbianhuiyoubuyiyangdeniantou。

2.好好爱自己

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3.恰当创建大家中间的联络

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