嫌弃我生活习惯不好，女朋友闹分手怎么挽救

 yishengdangzhong，pengdaoshenmeren，huoxudoubingbushibujingyi。yidanpengdaoyigezishenaiderenshi，jiuhuiyuelaiyueshifendezaiyi。yincixuduonanshenghuizaiwangshangsou：nvpengyounaofenshouzenmewanjiu？shubuzhimeiyigerendeshenghuohuanjingbuyiyang，liangrendejiazhiguanheshenghuoxiguandoubuyiyang。yincixuduoqingkuangxiaxuduonanti，duinilaishuoshifenxiaodeshierkenengzailingyifangyanzhongdoushihuibeiwujinbianda。youqishidanglingyifangduinijuededaoyouchengjiandeqingkuangxia。dangnvpengyouxianqiwoshenghuoxiguanbutaihao，yaofenshoulegaizenmewanhuini？henvpengyoufenshoulezenmewanhuiganqing？

最先，你需要看一下你是不是这种习惯性是能够改变的

 nvpengyouxianqinishenghuoxiguanbutaihao，biaomingbierenshihenzaiyizheizhongde。jiarunihaobuzaiyi，neimeliangrenchangchangweizheizhongsuoshierzhengchaodoumeiyoushayisi，jiubieyouchoubeinvpengyoufenshoulezenmewanhui。jiranbierenganjuenixiguanxingbutaihao，nihebuchangshixiugaizishendexiguanxing，bazijidezheizhongnantidougaizhengle，huoxudajiazhongjiandenantijiuhuichuli。renzheiyishengyuanbenbianshichixugaibianzishendequanguocheng，yaobushilingyifangdefasheng，huoxuniyagenjiumeiyouyishidaozishenyaogaibian，yaoshiniyuanyiweilingyifangergaibianniziji，zuishaobiaomingnineixinshiyoulingyifangde。jiranneimexiaibieren，weihejiubuyuanyizuochuyixiekeyibaozhengdegaibianni？

次之，要懂得用自身的优点去填补自身的缺点

 youshinvshengshibixunanhaierhongde，yinciyaoduoyixiexixinjilingyifang。danglingyifangganjuenihenhaojiaowangdeqingkuangxia，yedangranxiangyaodaliangdekuanrongni，zhongjiumeiyigerendoushiyouzishendequedianhequedianzai。queshixiailingyifang，jiurongruzhe，gaibianzhe。wangwangduiniwufarongren，neimeyidingyeyoubiededenanticunyou。yinci，nixuyaodongdejizijizailingyifangneixinzhengdeyidianderenkedubuwei，ranglingyifangjiandaonideyoudianhebijiaotuchu。youqishizaichuduixiangdeqingkuangxia，ninyouyifenhaokenengzailingyifangneixindouhenhaofeichanghao。yinci，nixuyaodongdequyunyingzishendeqiangxiang，rangzishendeshenghuoxiguanneiyangdequexiankanshangqubujingzhitan，neiyangcaikeyiranglingyifangduiniyouyidingdelejie。

再度，要懂得关注另一方

 yaofenshoulegaizenmewanhuicongbenshengaibianxueqi。huoxunideshenghuoxiguanbutaihao，shiyouyujiazhongjihuyemeiyourangnipeiyanglianghaoxiguan。huoxuzhiqiannimeiyouneiyangdeguannian，neimelingyifanggennishuole，nijiuxuyaozhujianliuyicongjintiankaishidiaojiezishen。lingwaiyaogengweifanbeideguanxinlingyifang，yaolejiezhenduinvshengeryan，sheidouxiangzhaoyigewenroutitiederen。ruguonigaoqingchuzheiyidiandeqingkuangxia，nijiuhuifangqineileiziworenshi，jinerbaguanjianzijintourudaodajiazhongjiandeguanliangaijinshang。dangyigerenzaiyijianshiqingshangrenzhendeqingkuangxia，tongchangniyiqianrenweidezheixienantidoubingbushinanti。

 ganqingzhongmeiyigerendoubuduandidiaozhengzhezishendebianjiao，nvpengyounaofenshouzenmewanjiuyaogaibianzhezishendexintai。haodeaiqingtongchanghuidaishangyigerenmanmandizouxiangfeifan，ziranzheilibianguidingnibuduandishengjizishen，buduandiziwowanshan。jiranlingyifangmingquetichuleguiding，neimejiudafangdebiaozhunhuadequguidingzishen，xiangxinnixiangyaogaibian，caihuicushilingyifangjuededaodajiazhongjianyeyouqidai。yaolejiezainantidaolaideqingkuangxia，gaibianzishencaisuanshizuihaoshidefazhanfangxiang。