毕业了，和男友分手后挽回的话能挽留他吗？

 bansuizhebiyejidelailin，xuduolianrendouzaoyuzhejiangyaofenshoudeshiji，youdebiyeyihouliudaotongyigediqu，yiqigongzuozhong，yiqishenghuo；youdebiyeyihoufenbiehuijiale，kaishilewujiezhideyidilian；youde，biyejiuyiweizhezhefenshou，kenengshiduijianglaidehaipa，ganjueyidilianmeiyoujianglai，gancuifenshousuanleba，xuduoyuangu。bulunshinianshudeqingkuangxia，huoshibiyeduanlelianxi，yidilianzaiqingganshangdoushiyigetiaozhan。fenshouzhihouzenmewanhui？yincifenshouwanhuiwomenyaozuodeshi，bushiyonghenanyoufenshouhouwanhuidehuaxianjianqingbiciguanxi，bubiyouyiqieguoyidexingwei，fangzhilianggerenzaicichuxianbumanyi。

 tahetadenanyoutanle5nian，waidi2nian，lianggerenxiaoyuanneideqingkuangxiaqinggantebiehao，qinmiwujian，biyezhihouzhujianwaidi，zhengzhongjianhaixianghuzhijianjianguofumu。suihoufenshoutongchanglaidehenhuran，yidiliandequanguochengzhong，nanhaimangliugongzuozhong，gennvhaiziliaotiandeshijianyuelaiyuedi，lingwaiyehushilenvshengdetihui。ernvshengni，weilegenghaodizhengshizishenzaitaxinlideyingxiangli，weilegenghaodidedaonanhaideguanxin，meiriweixinhongzha，dianhuahongzha，zhihounanhaijiaruheimingdanlenvshengdedianhua、shoujiweixin，jiushizheiyang，liangrenfenshoule。

 shijishangnanhaibushibuaita，zhishiyouyuyingduibiyegongzuozhongdejidayaliyouyixiexinyouyuerlibuzu，dianhuashoujiweixinkuanghongluanzhashizuiyumeide，neiyangzongshibatayuetuiyuezhang。fenshouyihounvshengyehenhouhuimoji，keshitayoubuqingchuzenyangzhangkoufenshouwanhui，buqingchuzenmewanhui。jianxinxuduonvshengyeyudaoguoyiyangdekunhuo，neiyaofenshougaizenmewanliu，shijishangzhixubaozhengzheijigefangmian，shitapeizainishenbianbingbingbushinanti。

1、真心实意的致歉

 zhiqianhenanyoufenshouhouwanhuidehuashiwubiyaoyoude，youyuxiangshangbiannvshengdeneileizhuangkuang，bianshibuxinrennanpengyoudezhuyaobiaoxian，jiarulianggerenzhongjianlianzuijibenshangdexinlaidoumeile，neitanlianaiyeyoushenmeyiyini？yaoxiangwanliuta，zuixianyaoyouyigezhenxinshiyidezhiqian，ranglingyifangjuedenidechengxin，ganjuezhihouzishenburongyizaishouneiyangdecuican。

2、了解他

 gaoxiaobiyeyihoushinanxingyalijiaodadeqingkuangxia，jingjifazhanyali、gongzuozhongyali，yuanbenjiuyouqilei，cikezuoweitadenvyou，jiarunizaijitamenqingganshangdeyali，zhiyoubatajikua。zuoweiyigenvyou，nixuyaozuodeyinggaishibangtahuanjieyali，shitaganjueyounizhenhao，erbushiweilegenghaodizhengshizishendecunyouqujitamenyali。niwubiyaolejie，tashiweilegenghaodidajiadejianglaierpinbo，erbushibuaile。xuduonvshengdoushiyouyigenanti：jiarunigongzuozhongdeqingkuangxiawojuedeshinipeizhewo，nihuizenmezuo？dajiaganjuedaanshishenme。

3、大家一起用心的整体规划将来

 yiduanhaodeaiqingbingbushidajiazaoyizaiyiqiduozhangshijian，zhishidajiatiqianzhunbeiyitongrichangshenghuoduozhangshijian，fenshouzhihouzenmewanhuiyingdanggaozhibicizhijiandajiaxiangconglingyifangdeshenshanghuodenaxie，yitongyongxinzhengtiguihuajianglai，rangdajiadejianglaijiandaoguanghuideqidai，zheiyeshiyidiliandeyizhongqudongli，yizhongfuwei。