和对象分手该不该挽回她？怎么挽回？

ganqingsuiranshitianmeide，danzaijiaowangdequanguochengzhongzaisuonanmianyouyixiefenqichansheng。yifangaideyusiyuxian，lingyibianqueyaoxiangguoduanfenshou，jianxinneiyangdeshilibuzaishaoshu。youxuduonanhaizijiuwenle，dangnvyouguoduanyaofenshoushi，dajiayingbuyinggaishuoxiehenvpengyoufenshoulewanhuidehuawanhuitani？nvpengyouhewofenshoulezenmewanhui？shijishangzheigewentimeiyouyigegudingbudongbuhuigaibiandehuida，youyujuecehuidaduicuodeyaosushigegefangmiande，nizaizuojuedingheduixiangfenshouzenmewanhuizhiqian，zhishaobixuchongfenkaolvxialiehaoduogeyaosu。

一、搞清楚女友为何要分手

conglaimeiyoumomingqimiaodeai，gengmeiyoumomingqimiaodehen，rangnvyoujudabianhuayidingshicunyouyuangude，yincizaikaolvdaoyingbuyinggaiwanhuinvyouyiqian，nigengyingdanggaoqingchunvyouweiheyaoxiangyunifenshou。yibaneryanweihaidaofenshoudeyuangushigegefangmiande，shifanzade。xuduonanhaizijinjindanchunxingdewangxiangdaozishenqiong，zishenmeichuxi，youhuoshishinvyouyongyouxinganqingzheixie，shijishangjiangfenshouyuanguguinaweizaiqizhongyizhong，jiukanqilaiguodupianmianxingle。nixuyaoyijujutiqingkuang，qukeguandepouxihuoshilijiquwennvyouweiheyaotiaoxuanfenshou。suhuashuodehaosiyeyaosilegegaoqingchu，womenbunengzuoyigehulihutugui。jinyounongqingchufenshouyuangudouyounaxie，nicaizhidaozheiyiduanqingganhaiyoumeiyoujianchixiaqudeyuanyin。

二、从女友的态度来分辨

jiarushuodiyibunizaoyigaoqingchulenvyouyaoxiangfenshoudeyuangu，erqienirenweizishenshikeyijiuzhengde，shikeyiqurongqiadehua，neimexubuxuyaowanhuiniyaodecongnvyoudetaidulaifenbian。dajiachangshuoshuangyanshixinlingdechuanghu，shijishangwaizaidezhuyaobiaoxian，pingchangdetaidushikeyifeichanghaodezhuyaobiaoxianyigerendexinlizhenzhengniantou。lirunvyouguoduanyaofenshou，danquezaifenshouhoumeiyouduanjuedajiazhongjiandewanglai，naizhishuohaiweichizhemouleilianluo，neimejiubiaomingnvyoudetaidubingmeiyouxiangxiangzhongneimejianying，tayaoxiangdefenshoudaliangshiyizhongweimingshangfangshi，shiliuchuniuqudekongjiande；dandangnvyoufenshouhoujiangnijiaruheimingdan，xiaotuizailenideyanxia，naizhishuoweilegenghaodibikainierlaidaoqitachengshidefazhan，neimejiubiaominglingyifangshidongdezhenge，shichengxinchengyideyaoyunilibie，neinijiubixushensishulvyeyaobubishuoxiehenvpengyoufenshoulewanhuidehuawanhuile。

三、你有没有充足的信心

nvpengyouhewofenshoulezenmewanhuibingbushiyijianjianyifeichangrongyideshi，youqishidangnvyouguoduanyaofenshoudeqingkuangxia，tongchangbiaomingdajiazishencunyouleqingkuangyanzhongdenanti，neimenizaizuojuedingshibushiwanhuideqingkuangxia，jiuxuyaowenyiwenzishenyouzheiyixinxinma？yihuoshineiyangdewanhuiduinieryanqueshizhidema？jiarudajiazhongjiandeqingganbingbuzunonghou，niyebingbingbushizishensuoxiangxiangdeneimeailingyifangdehua，lijitingshouyewuwaihuyizhongcongmingdezuofa。

yingbuyinggaiwanhuinvyoushijishanghuidafeichangjiandan，zhendezuoqilaihenduorenyekeyi“qudechenggongwanhuinvyou”，danzhongyaojiushiniyaogaoqingchuneiyangdewanhuixingdongyouduodadeshijiyiyi。heduixiangfenshouzenmewanhuibushiaijiuxuyaobuguyiqie，jiuxuyaofenbugushen，zheileiyiwufangudetaidusuiranmeiyoucuo，danquebuzhichangdao。zhenzhengdeaiqingliangrendeshier，yinciyoutianmeiyequanshichuangjianzaibicidehudongjiaoliuzhong，womenbunengyiweidezhuzhongzishendetihui，gengyaozunzhongtarendetiaoxuan。zaishiquduidengyaoqiudeqingganzhong，jibianfuhexingle，nayebuguoshigouqietousheng，shushouwuceeryi。yincikeguankandaiqinggancaisuanshizuiyouxiaode，yeshizuibibukeshaodeguanjianyaosu。