挽回分手的他，该不该做朋友？

fenshouhoujibianshishuangfangdoushifenzhenxinchengyifeijinxinsizuopengyou，doubuyuanrangtarenganjuezishenbuzukongqi，huoshishiyeyoushuobailede“qinggan”zai，youhuozheshigangfenshouhoudajiahainengzuopengyou，meiwanhainengliaohaoduogezhongtou……danshi，woxianggaosunideshi，fenshouhouyibanshizuobulaipengyoude，daliangdeshihouhuiwuqi。fenshouhou“zuopengyou”dexinlizhuangtaitongchanghuoshiyoufuhedexinlizhuangtai。youzheileixinlizhuangtaidehua，pengyoujiuzuodehenguaiguaide，budangran。zheileibudangranbianhuizaochengpengyouzheileiguanlianjiweibuwending，wanghoumianfazhanqushiyaobubianshifuhequdechenggong，yaobujiuzhendeshitianyamotu。danruguonixiangwanhuizheiduanganqing，fenshouhouzuopengyouliyuwanhui。suoyifangxiashouzhongdefenshouwanhuideshuoshuo，xiangzhidaozenmewanhuifenshoudetaqingjixukanxiaqu。

zuixian，dajiadegaoqingchushenmeshi“putongpengyou”?

dajiahenyoukenengyaoshuoputongpengyoubianshihenjiandandeneileipengyou，dahuoerjiburongyitaiqinmiwujian，xiangchuyebuhuitaijingchang，meishierdagedianhua……jinguanshineiyangmeiyoucuo，dangengjingzhundejiedingputongpengyoubianshi：shifouyoudouyiyang。woyounizheiyiputongpengyougenmeizheigeputongpengyou，yijianshieryanmeiyouduoshaodeweihai，zheijiujiaoputongpengyou，nijinjinwozhuduoputongpengyouzhongdeyige。jiranshifouyoudouyiyang，niyouhekuyidingyaogentazuoputongpengyouni?jiranniyidingyaozuo，neimejiubiaomingnibujinshibatadangputongpengyou，huoshiyoufuhedexinlizhuangtaizailimian。neiweishenmeyoudeshililianggerenfenshouyinian，2nianhouzuopengyoule?youyuneigeshihou，tamenjibenshangshizaoyifangxiale，neigeshihoujiuqueshijinjinzuoyigepengyoubalele。

yibanzhuangkuangxia，dajiapubiandefenshouhouzhibuguoyousanzhongzhuangkuang：

一、完全分手

nizounideyangguandao，wozouwodeguodumuqiao，zaiwuguanjinyao，richangshenghuojibenshangzaiwuxiangjiao。fenshouzheiyijianshierbidingzuishaosunhaizaiqizhongyifang，beisunhaiderenyouyuzizunbeishangdeguoshen，weilegenghaodilianmiancongcibuyuanyihelingyifangpengmian;zaizaijiashangbeishanghaizhehuiyunxingxinlizhuangtaiweihutizhi，yinerhuiduilingyifangchanshengchengjian，youaiwanquanhuaxiaqijue，sheqiubianchengpengyoujibenshangshibutaikenengdele。

二、变成临时的朋友。

fenshouhoubugan，xiangbianchengpengyoujinerhuodefuhedejiyu，xianeryijianshiyouzheileihenyoukenengde。huoshishiyifangxiangfuhe，yincilinshijienazuopengyou，danzheileizhuangkuangzhenduiwanliuzheshijiaoweifengxiande，youyupengyouzuozhezuozhehenyoukenengqinglvdejuedemeile，yincizhinengyibeizizuopengyou。

dajiashenpangchaochaonaonaodeshilibujiqishu，liruzheiyi：“dajiafenshoule。zhiqianwozongganjuefenshoujiubukeyizaizuopengyou。danshiciciwoquedianjizhe，jiaruganlepengyou，wohainenggouyoushihougentashuoshuohua，buhuirengranxiaidexintaiwucongshifangchulai。danshineiyangzuoqueshibixuma?henbuxiaxinjiuneimewanbi，yinweiwoshizheguozaizheiliduanqingganlitouruqinfen。keshibuqingchuweiheshiwofazhan，fandaotashuodaotananyigenggai。xiangzuopengyouyinweiwojinjinqidaiyouyitianchaochupengyouzaicizaiyiqi。”

danshi，zuizhongtamennengfoufuhe，yaoshixiangxiqingkuangerding，youyixierenjijimingquetichufenshouzhihouhaixiangwanliu，neimeneiyangdeqingganfuheshishifenyoukenengde。

三、由情侣关联变为最一切正常的朋友

jiaruliangrenzaiyiqijuedebushihe，youyifenshou，buhuiyousheisunhaishei，nenggouzuopengyou。danyidanfenshouquanguochengzhongcunyouyiqiesunhaigerenxingwei，dounanyibianchengpengyou。yeyouyizhongzhuangkuangbianshi，jinguanzuichufenshouwufajienazuopengyou，keshisuiyuerusuo，bansuizheshijianliushi，liangrendoujianjiandixuehuifangxia，ganjueneishihoufenshouyemeineimebijiaoyanzhong，yincihainenggouzaicizuopengyou。

fenshouhoujuedaduoshuwufabianchengpengyou，danbukeyifoudingyoujishaoshudeqinglvbianchenglepengyou。shubuzhi，zhenduijuedaduoshulaijiang，jibianfenshouhouzuolepengyou，yemeihaoduogenengzhenzhenzhengzhengshenjiaode，shuzuiduoyeshigenpingchangrenleisi，wuquleshuoshuohua，youshiqinglewangdaonaohou。jiranzheiyang，zuobuzuopengyouyouyounaxiezhongyaodeni?zhenduiyaoxiangwanliudeyifangeryan，dierzhongzhuangkuangbianchenglinshidepengyoushiyouyiyuwanliude。

zaigangfenshouhelingyifangshuozuopengyoudeqingkuangxia，lingyifanghenyoukenengjinjinfuyanleshi，danxinnidejiuchanbuqing。zheiduanshijianruguoshiyaoxiangwanhuifenshouderen，yidingyaozhangwohao，liyongfenshouhouzuopengyouliyuwanhuizheiyidian。ziwofansizishenzaizheiliduanqingganzhongdecunzaidebuzu，lingyifangmaiyuanguodediqu，helingyifangzhengchaodezhuangkuang，ranglingyifangfandegerenxingweideng，pouxiqingxi，youqishibaofadian。yihou，weizijilieyixiliefangan，duiyuzishensuobugoudediquzhuyaodiaojietigao。bixuliuyideshi，zaitigaodezheiduanshijianweichiranglingyifangjuedeshufudejianju，goujianhaodeyinxiang，buyaoqingyifaxiefenshouwanhuideshuoshuo。suihoujianjiandichupenglingyifangranglingyifangjiandaogecengmianbuyiyangdeni，zaicixiyinzhulingyifang，zuodaowanliudemudi。