老公出轨我该怎么办？处理老公出轨的聪明方法

laogongchuguiwogaizenmeban？chulilaogongchuguidecongmingfangfa。ruguonilaogongjinkenengdechugui，niyidingyaoxiangxinshijiankeyizhiyuyiqiechuangshang，buguanninengbunengfazineixindeyuanliang。bayuanlaideshenghuoguiling，baokuoniduitadeganjue。rangzijigaibianziji，paoqihuaixiguan，quanxinquanyiaiziji，zuoyigeyoupinweidenvren，buyaojingchanghuitou。

第一，冷静思考原因。

laogongchuguizenmeban?yidanhunyinchuxianwenti，juedinglihunshifeichangbumingzhide。nihaimeigaoqingchunihunyinshibaideyuanyin。caolvlihunhuijinixinliyinying。suoyi，dangnilaogongbuhundeshihou，zuoweiqizi，nishouxianyaofaxianhunyinzhongdewenti，erbushichaojia，jianshihuozherangqinyoupingjia。

yinweizheizhongqingkuangyijingfashengle，ruguonibunengkeguandezhaochuyuanyin，zhidiaochasheiduisheicuo，neimezheiduanhunyinyebuhuiyoujianshexingdebangzhu。chufeinijuedinghelaogonglihun，fouzejiurangtachedilikaini。

ruguonihaixiangyoujihuihelaogongjiehun，yidingyaocongyiwangdehunyinzhongxunzhaoyuanyin，baokuobuyukuaidexiangchufangshi，shifouxiangchurongqia。renshengchajudama?jiazhiguanbutonghaishibuguanzhuduifangdexuqiu?

第二，了解男人的政策。

laogongchuguizenmeban?yinanyinvzaiyiqihenjiule。tamenduishentijiyiyanjuan，meiyouxinxiangan，xinlibianhuabuda，yangchengleyouzerenganheyingduinenglidelaoshijuzhi。

danshi，mianduixindexingbanlv，nanxinghuijinglijudadexinliheshenglibianhua，huichanshengfengkuangdezhengfuyu，congerdaozhinannvxingfu。suoyi，chuguidenanrenshimeiyounaozide。zheishihounizuihaoduilaogongchangkaixinfei，zhenxinshiyidetanyitan，buyaoxinhuairenhepianjianhuofennu，fouzelaogonghennan“biaobai”。

laogongchuguizenmewanhui?xinlixuejiagaosuwomen，zhiyouxiangxinbierenshuodeshizhende，bierencainengshizhende。xianzaidenvxinghenlei，zuobudaozheiyidian，yinweitamenzaigongzuoheshenghuozhongyaobanyanhenduojiaose。danshi，weilehuodelianghaodehunyinguanxi，tamenzaishenghuozhongbuyinggaizhizuo“baomu”danglaopo。

zaizheigejiaosezhong，yidingyaodongdebuduanjihunyinzhuruxinxiangan，yongzijidezhihuiyingzaoaidefenwei，congfuzhuangdegexinghuaxiuyangtishengziji，cainengbaochiduinanrendexiyinli。

还是那句话，从零开始修复婚姻。

ruguonilaogongjinkenengdechugui，niyidingyaoxiangxinshijiankeyizhiyuyiqiechuangshang，buguanninengbunengfazineixindeyuanliang。bayuanlaideshenghuoguiling，baokuoniduitadeganjue。rangzijigaibianziji，paoqihuaixiguan，quanxinquanyiaiziji，zuoyigeyoupinweidenvren，buyaojingchanghuitou。

chongdianziji，xiangshouziji，xuehuiruhedabandabanzijideshenghuo，rangzijideshenghuogengmeihao。niyidingyaojizhu“jiangshanyigai，benxingnanyi”，danbuyaozongtixingtachugui。zaizheiyangderizili，nihuihentongku。jianeryanzhi，nikeyiziligengsheng，ziwozhaogu。lianggerendeshenghuo。

fuqiganqingshishenghuojileide。fuqichaojia，nvrenyidingbunenghuxiangtaoyan。youshihou，tahuiyanjuanni，bushiyinweinideyuangong，ershiyinweinidexingwei。jiusuanshiyigewanquanmeiyouwaiyudenanren，zongyouyitianyehuiduiyigenvrengandaoyanfan。tongshi，ruguoyigenanrenaiyigenvren，zheizhongyanjuanganyehuishiduanzande。huifuhunyinxuyaolianggerengongtongnuli，baozhengnihelaogongdachengyizhi，xiwangzaiciweichihunyin，gaishanguanxi。

yaoxianghuodelaogongdexinren，yidingyaohetagoutong，duoshuohua。ninengzuodejiushi:buyaotaiqiangshi，buyaoranglaogongjuedeyayi。buyaozongshitanaiqing，bujinhuishanghaini，haihuishanghainimendeguanxi;jilaogongzunyan，baozhanglaogongshiwuanquan。nikenengbuhuizhijiededaorenhehaochu，danshinilaogonghuijizhuzheiyidian。huilijienidenuli。

zuihou，shulizhengquedehunyinguan。

hunyinshiyizhongzhihui，tigaoshangyehunyin、qingshang、goutongnenglihenzhongyao。xuehuitongqing，xuehuituoxie，xuehuixinshang，xuehuizanmeiduifang，congerxingchengmoqi，pinweishenghuodekuaileyutianmi。yexunihuixiangdangrandirenwei，yiduanhunyinzhongdelianggerenshineimezhongcheng，neimeyuanyifuchu。dangran，zheishiwomenmeigerenmeihaodeqidai。

raner，womendouyouqingganheshentishangdexuqiu。ruguonikaishihushizheizhongqinmiguanxi，duifanghenkenenghuixunqiuxindeciji。qingtongyi“kenengshiwailaide”。zheizhongweijiganhuirangnigengqingxiangyugaishanguanxi，baozhengshuangfangmanyi。ziran，buyaozhongcheng!xuexilangmanhejiqingdejiqiao，jifashuangfangdexingfenhexingqu，ranghunyinshenghuobiandeyouqu。