老婆怀孕老公出轨可以原谅吗，该怎么办

laopohuaiyunlaogongchuguikeyiyuanliangma？jinqijiedaoyiweiwangmindesiliao，tadezhuangkuangshineiyangde：huaiyun6geyue，huranfajuezhangfugenyinvdeliaosaojilu，fanyueleweixinzhangdan，zhifubaozhangdan，meituanwaimaidingdanxinxiyihou，fajuetazhiyouzaiwaimianyongcanhekaifangjian。nanrenzaihuaiyunqijianchuguilvgaoma？huaiyunqijianlaogongchuguianli，tarujinjubuchengren，fanyaoyikoushuowoxinfanyiluan，bianhuinao，haishuopengchutadaodedixian。wozuihoutiaoxuankuanrong，tayetongyishandiaonagenvde，danhuanshiyouhuangyan。woxinlitaitongchu，bingbushiyouyutaibaobao，yidinghuinaoda。rujinwoyirannanyishihuai，yelinanyirushui，wogaizenmezuo?

听完后这名的网民的信件，我们可以发觉下列二点难题：

1.夫妻间的信任感坍塌

fuqiguanxicunzaidewentiwufadedaochuli，yinershiquxinlaigan，xinlideyaoqiuwufadedaokaolv，nanshengjiuxiangwaixunzhao，ernvxingqiahaojiufajuele，shubuzhinvrenxuanzelekuanrong，keshixinliyiranhuiduitayoucaiyi。zhuduozhuangkuangshuoming，fuqijianyiqiandexinrenganxianjieduanzaoyitanta。

2.就算沒有客观事实外遇，但已存有老公精神出轨

henyoukenengyouderenjuedezheitanbushangwaiyu，danzheixukanliangkouzirenzenyangkandaizheigewenti，jiaruyifangmeifajiena，neilingyifangjiugaikaolvdaolingyifangdetihui，buxuxiangjingerenxingweisunhaixianghudeqinggan。dangnanrenxinliyaoqiuwufadedaokaolv，benshendejuexinglibuzu，tiaoxuanzaiwangshangyixingliaotianlaikaolvzishen，jiuyicunyoulaogongjingshenchuguidezhuangkuangle。

dangnvrenxuanzelekuanrongshi，nenggoukandechulaitamenyiqianganqingjichufeichanghao，duinanshenghuanshixinhuaiqidaide，keshidaodigaizenmejiejuezheigewentini?wogeichuyixiajigefangmiantiyi：

1.恢复自身的心态

nanrenzaihuaiyunqijianchuguilvgaoma？huaiyunderenyuanbenjiupiqibaozao，keshiweilebaobaohezishendeshenxinjiankangkaolv，yidingyaorangzishenxintaiwendingchulai。ninengtiaoxuanqukanshu、tinggezheixielaishifangyalizishen，huoshizhaoxunjiaoweiyouconghui，nenggoujiezhuderen，liruqinren、penyou、jishuzhuanyedexinlizixunshizheixie，jinizhenglixintai。

2.找寻技术专业处理方法

huaiyunqijianlaogongchuguianli，fufuyoufenqi，yaocongyuantoushangjiejuekunnan，jiarujinjinwusuozuowei，huoshiyongyixiebushidangdefangfachangshixiangyaoqugenggailingyifang，haowuyiwenshizaizuoxiamang，naizhirangqingganjinyibuebian。yaoxiangzhenshichulizishendeganqingwenti，wubiyaoyijubenrendejutiqingkuang，shenrufenxi，caikeyizhenshiduizhengzhiliao。youguanzheixiefangmian，tiyinizhaojishuzhuanyedeqingganzhuanjia。

3.和自己做个决策

dajiadouqidaizishennengguodeyuebianyuehao，weilegenghaodizishendexingfukuailejianglai，yaoyingyongdequjieshouxianshi，yinci  womenyaohezijizuogejuece：buguanchanshengshenmeshiqingdouhao，womendouyaorangzishenguodeyuebianyuehao;

laopohuaiyunlaogongchuguikeyiyuanliangma？jirannijuecetiaoxuankuanrong，jiuxuyaofangzhizishenbuxinren、jiechuanlingyifang，wujiezhidecaiyizongshishiwomenshenxiangengweitongchudegudi。shubuzhidaizhubaorongheai，caikeyiranghunyinshenghuozouhuizhengdao。danbuguanjieguozenyang，zishenjiejinquanliguo，zaiqinfendequanguochengzhongtigaolezishen，doubukuidiao。yizhihenxihuanneiyangyiduanhua：youdanlianglaigenggainenggougenggaideshier，youxiongjinlaijienabunenggenggaideshier，youconghuilaibianbieerzhedebuyiyang。