男人出轨被发现后心理，该怎么面对

zuotianwanshangyelichiguofan，wowuliaozhongshualeshuashouji，hurankandaoleyigeyouguanwaiyudehuiying，huaiyilaogongchuguiyinggaizenmegentaliao？nanrenchuguibeifaxianhouxinli，huishishenmeyang，zenmeshitanzijilaogongchugui？juedeyouqiyouqu，erqiexuduo wangmindouganjuezheiyihuiyingshenzhun!

1、danfanzhonglaoniannanxinghurangangkaishiyundongjianshen，neitayidingshizaoyichuguile。

 2、danfanjiehunhounvshihurankaishixuexi，chongshiziji，xuewaiyu，xiuguoxuejingdian，kaomba，neitazhangfukendingshizaoyichuguile。

3、danfanzhonglaoniannanxinghuranmishangmouzhongzaqiandezhutihuodongbunengziba，lirumotuoche、yinxiang，neitahaowuyiwenzaoyijindaowuxingqingkuangle。

youguandiertiao，wozheishinaozilijinbuzhuxiangdaolezhangzetiannaichamei，tajinqibujiubeipuchutiqianzhunbeiqumeiguodeniujindaxuexuexima?erzhenghao，shangnianhe2020nian，tazhangfudeshierzhengnaodegedawangzhanyilunfenfen。

neima，cike，dajiajinbuzhuganjueyilv：chuguinanren，nvxingyibanshiruhefajuedeni?

anvxing：genjuweixinliaotianjilufajuede

woyizhijuedezishenshixingfude，hezhangfufenbiezaizishenxiaideqiyegongzuo，qingganpingwen，poxizhijianfeichanghao，jiagongyeshigelianjiaderen。

helaogongjinglienenaiaidetanlianai，suihouchenggongwanhun。dajiazaoyiyongyouyigexiaohai，rujinwozhengzaimanhuaiertai，xunsu，zheiyiyuedijiuxuyaoshengle。

danjiuzaizheiduanshijian，wozongjuedezhangfuyixiechuxianyichang，shuobuchulaiweihe。panduanligenwoshuo，shigaichaxiatadeshoujile。

huaiyunhouqiwoyizhiniaopinniaoji，jiezhelingchenxinglaidekongdang，wofanletadeshoujishang。

diankaijinqiwanbideweixinliaotianjilu，jianyifanliangyejiuhuozhineishitadetongshi，shangniangangdaxuebiyedexuesheng，tingtayetanqiguo。

neirongbingmeiyoushifennuanwei，danxianliaozhongbiaoluchuqifen，chongmanledajiatanlianaishideqichang。liangyeweixinliaotianjilukanchulai，zhangfushuodeshuzuiduodeyijuhuabianshi：xiawunengheniyiqiyongcanzuixingfukuailele。

zaitamendeweixinliaotianjiluli，wodoufajuetamenchangchangzaiyiqichiwufan，tahaiwenhuimaishuiguoquneilitongshidejiazhong。

kewolaogongpingchangzaijialishiyiwulunyouyanjiangcuderen，youyuzheiyiqiedoushiyoujiapozaiqingxi。maishuiguozuofanzheileishier，zongshichanshengzaidajiatanlianaiqinei。

jinqizhangfuyouyugongzuozhongdeyuangu，zaochenhenzaoyiqianyaochufa，jiacheyixiaoshiquqiyegongzuozhongdabantian，xiawuwanbi，zhenghaohuihezheimingtongshiyouyizhidewucanshijian。

jintianyidazao，wozhenghejiapoweixinfanggoumaichuanglianbu，lingwaidengtalaijiedajia。

ta12：30wanbigongzuozhong，woyujiapodoudanyoutalei，shitaxianchiguofan，wushuiyihouzaishuojiedajia。zaochenqidiankaolvhuanshihenjianxin，yinci qidaitaxianxieyihui。

dajiadegoumaisandianwanbi，qiahaotatongdianhualaiwenhaiyouduojiu，wojiangnenggoulaila，shundaiwenqinichifanlema?tashuodaosuiyichiwandian，wobingmeizaihu。

shifenzhongshangxiahou，tajiulaidao。zheiyichang，jiarutayaocongqiyehuilai，zuishaodebanxiaoshi。kanguoweixinliaotianjilu，caizhidao，yuanxiantamenyuehuidediqu，jiujianjudajiagoumaidediquhenjin。

nanrenchuguibeifaxianhouxinli，talaileyihou，jiandajiahaimeiyouxuanhao，jiuzishenzhaoyigediqushuizhele。keshiwo，tingzhedaduzi，juransichujitamenzhaozhenxin，rujinxiangyixiangjianzhihaoxiao!

taxiawumeiwushui，paoquhenvtongshiyouhui。woyetingzhedaduziweishineizhuangxiudeshier，sichuzoulaizouqu，zhiqidaizaishengyiqianbashineizhuangxiudeshiernaxia。ketani，jiushizheiyangyijianshi?

zaiwangxiakanweixinliaotianjilu，fajuetahenvtongshizhongjiandegezhonggeyangchengnuo，yiqiqukandianying，yiqiqutingxunhuiyanchang，yiqiqudisini……

zenmeshitanzijilaogongchugui？kanwanweixinhou，neiyike，wodetongxinwubi!wocongcimeifawangxiakan，yemeiyoushenmeyongqizaiwangxiakan，wozuozhezuobianqishang，renzhexinlidejulietengtong，huanshihaotaodaku……

chuqukanjiannagetangzaichuangshangshuishudenansheng，yizhongjuliganxiangwopumianerlai。

zaochentawaichugongzuodeqingkuangxia，huanshixiangyiwangyiyang，guolaibaobaowo，haiqinlewoyixia。zheizhongzhiqianrangworenweitianmanwennuandezishi，jiuzaineiyikeganjueexinxiangtuwubi。

keshiweilegenghaodibuxurenkanchuqu，wohaishibiezhule。

yiqianyuanyiweizishenshiduomededexingfukuaile，rujinwoquemangranle……

bnvxing：genjuyipingchunjingshuifajuede

wopingshishangbanquanshizishenzuogongchehuilaide。zaohuanongren，zuorixiabanledeqingkuangxia，qiahaoxiayu，yemeiyoudaisan，jiulinshixingjiaolaogongjiachelailaijie。

chengzuodaofuzhujiadeqingkuangxia，kanjianlechuwujucaoliqiahaoyouyipingkaifengshidechunjingshui。

wosuiyijiuwenzhangfu，zheipingshuisheideya?

zhangfuhendangrandishuotade。

wojuedeyemeixiang，lijikaiqibolipingjiuzhunbeiheyikou。

zheishihouzhangfuxiaobiaoqinghuranbudangranle，gangyaoxianglanxiabuxuwohe。keshiwo，zaoyijiangpingsaisairukouzhong!

keshi，wolikejiutuchule!shenmeyuanyina，chunjingshuiyeyoucaomeiweide?!

woxixinyikan，pingsaiyouchungaodeyinhen。zaohuanongren，neiyitianwoqiahaomeiyoushangzhuang。

yinci，changchangkangezhonggeyangbaguadewo，likezhidaonaxie，woyipingshuisadaolezhangfudeshenshang。

erta，zaiwodezhiwenxia，tatashishijiaodailepaoniudequanbuquanguocheng。

danshini，jiazhongdehuijishiquandouhuiwoshoushang，liangtayehaipazaifangzong。

biedelingrenpenfandeguanjiandian

C女性：

gangdaguodianhuajuranmeiyoutongxunjilu，yongdeshangneimexianzhuma?

D女性：

qingrenjie，taweixinshangde“fuqin”jitamenfaguolaiyijuzhuyuan：zhangfu，qingrenjiekuaile!

这一，也要表述吗?

E女性：

wozuozhetashenpang，shoujiyouxinxilaideqingkuangxia，tadiyiyanxiankanzhewo，erbushishoujishang。youxinxinimeikan，kanzhewoganshani?

budebuchengren，nanshengruguowaiyu，shizhongyetaobuchunvxingdehuiyan。beifajue，jinjinshijiandenanti。

shubuzhimeiyigenvren，yingduizhangfuchuguiyihoudezhuyaobiaoxianhechengshounenglidoubuyiyang，zheixiekanqilaigaoxiaoyoumodefajueshenhou，quanshidajiakanbujiandetongxin。

keshi，nvxing，nijinyourangzishenyuelaiyueyouzixin，caibujunanshengdewaiyu。youzixinderenshengdaolu，caikeyihuodexiaosa。

huaiyilaogongchuguiyinggaizenmegentaliao？jinjin，yuantiandidenvxingdoubuyongzheileiconghui。neima，nihuoshinideshenpang，youmuyouyixiexiangjindeshier，nishizenmeduidaideni?yiqilaifabiaopinglunliuyanbanliuyanfenxiang!