拯救婚姻攻略：老公出轨第三者该如何解决？

zhengjiuhunyingonglve：laogongchuguidisanzhegairuhejiejue？henduoqizizaiyudaolaogongchuguihoudoubunengguanlihaozijideqingxu，rongyiyongyixiejiduandefangfaquwanhuifanerbianyiledisanzhe。benwenfenxiang3gefangfajiaonizhengjiuhunyin。

一、注重提升自己的内外在

youxienvrenxihuanbaofuzhangfuchugui，yihuanquxinlipingheng。qishibaofuxingchuguibingbunengfuweinvrenshoushangdexinling，zhinengrangnvrengengjiafanzaohuozhezoushangbuguilu。weici，nvrenfaxianlaogongchuguihou，yaobiaoxianchuzijidedanding，buyaotuifei。

xiangfan，tayinggaibazijidabandepiaopiaoliangliangde，tongshifangmanhuijiadebufa，rangnanrenyoudianwumengmengde。dangnishenmideshihou，nanrenjiuhuihaoqi。nizhixuyaojiazhuanglengbulengmeiguanxi。nanrenhuihenjinzhangni，rangtahusiluanxiang，buyaoyiziyijutitachuguideshi。dangtaxiangnidaoqiandeshihou，nihuikandaosuoyoudeshenglidoushiqule。

二、理性看待老公出轨的事实

jingyinghunyinshilianggerendeshi，chuguiyekenengshiyinweifuqijingyinghunyindefangshibudang，rangcangyingyaopoledan。suoyi，zhangfuchuguihou，nvrenbuyinggaishengqi，eryinggaiwenzijipingriliyoumeiyoujindaoqizidezeren。

 ruguoniderichangzuofabukaopu，xianxianglaogongdaoqian，nuligaizheng；ruguoshilaogonghuaxin，xianwenwenzijiyaobuyaolihun。ruguobulihun，jiuyaodanxinchuguiqijianduifangdeganshou。suoyi，bunenghelaogongchaojiataiduo，burankenengmeishenmebuzhou。

三、还要处理好和公婆的关系

xinshidai，jibenshangmeigejiatingdoushidushengzinv，gongpoziranhuibaxifudangchengzijidenver。suiranyoushihoubunengrentonggongpo，danshiyaoxuehuibaoronghelijie。zaixindehunyinshidai，yigenengtaohaogongpodexifu，zaijiatingzhonghuibanyanzhongyaodejiaose。

老公出轨后，即使不在乎妻子的感受，也要考虑父母的感受。平时我公婆在最关键的时刻自然会为你挺身而出。