老公出轨变心后，带给我的教训

nanrenbianxindebiaoxianyounaxie？xuduonvxingyizhixiayishidichaozishendezhangfunaopiqi。shijishangnanshenggongzuoyaliyefeichangda，jiaruyoushiniyizhizigaozidadeshushuonizijidegongzuoyali，niyejiukemeiyoushijianqingsutaneixinshenchu。tayunizhongjiushi2gedandudegeren。niduitanaopiqi，shiyouyunizaiqianyishizhonglijuedeta......

“yaonengmanzuxinchangtaihua，renlaiwuqiupinzigao”。dangqinshenjinglizhangfuchuguihou，wodexintaizhuangtaifandaozhenjinghecongronglexuduo。renshengdaoludedeyushihaoxiangdouzaoyimeiyouneimaguanjian。zheiyeshizhangfuchuguihou,dailaiwodejingyanjiaoxun。

第一、不必把冲他闹脾气当做你爱她的方法

xuduonvxingyizhixiayishidichaozishendezhangfunaopiqi。shijishangnanshenggongzuoyaliyefeichangda，jiaruyoushiniyizhizigaozidadeshushuonizijidegongzuoyali，niyejiukemeiyoushijianqingsutaneixinshenchu。tayunizhongjiushi2gedandudegeren。niduitanaopiqi，shiyouyunizaiqianyishizhonglijuedetabuhuilikaini，burongyipanbianni。yincinidexingzicaiyuezhangyueda，ergengshiyouyunidexingzi，caihuibatayueganyuelaiyueyuan。huoxutawaiyubingbushilijishiyouyuni，keshihuoduohuoshaodefumianqingxutahaijianzhiwucongxiaohuaxishou。huoxuzhenduitaeryan，waiyujuebushiyouyuai，keshiqueshizhaodaoxintaidelajixiang。

第二、不必忽视真情，她们就是你永远的爱

youshiyinweiganqing，nipanbianlequanbunishenaizhedejiaren，nibuguanbugutamendedizhi，henjinwanshuiqianshan，zhiyinweinijuedenixingfujiukeyile。neishiyouyunijuedenipengdaota，tajiukeyitinidangfengzheyu，danshiruguonizaoshoubiequ，nicaihuifajuejinyouzhenqingcaijiushinizheiyishengzuiwanquandeqinggan，meirennenggoutidai。yinci，jibianzaiaiyigeren，yeyidingyaoyouzishendezhenqing，haiyaoweizijidezhenqingliuyouyidianbuwei，zheizhongtebieshizaijiushinizaipengdaonandiandeqingkuangxia，nenggourangzishenhuanjieyali，jintuiyoududeyizhongtiaoxuan。yeshinihuozhujuedefengfudeyigeyuangu。

第三、婚姻生活中的桥梁是夫妇彼此精神实质上的互相照顾

hunyinshenghuodangzhongzuijianyideqiaoliangshifufubicijingshenshizhishangdehuxiangzhaogu。bujinshitadebingshi、jiannanshinizhuisuizaitashangxia，gengguanjiandeshizaitajingshenshizhishangpengdaonantideqingkuangxianikeyishitalejienishixihuantade，shitajiandaorichangshenghuodezixinxinhedanliang。rutongyanyuanliutaohetalaogongwangkedeganqing：yiqianwangkeyujiangxinzaidiantijiaoxiangzhongouyu，xiangyu20tianshenqingzhucewanhun，erqiezai2008nianbeijinghaozi400wanjubanshengdayouxidehunyan，jiezhejiangxinchechuyulequan。keshizhei2niantazhangfuwangkeyinzuoshengyidaobi，xintaiyalijidaerdeletongkuzheng，keshijiangxinqueyingyongdizhongchuyulequan，pingwenlejiazhongdeshenghuopinzhi，erqiejizhangfurichangshenghuoxialaidezixinxin，jingshenshizhishangjuededaobingmeiyoudaobi。yinerjiazhongrengranguodehemuxingfukuaile。

nanrenbianxindebiaoxianyounaxie？yigenvrenzuihouyaoxiangde，zhibuguoshiyigebaorongdehuaili，youzhezishenzailimianjiaozongdimanchan。zhangfuchugui，yeshiyigerangnvxingkuaisuziwochengzhangdeyitiaofangshi。jiranquanbudejieguodouzaoyixiehao，neiweihebucongrongyidian，yingyongdihuozhu，bubiduiqitarenbaoyouhendadejixiwangyu，neimaniderenshengdaoluyebuzaihuxinhan。ganxieshenghuo，haohaoaiziji，yushiwuzheng，xiaosayixie，meishenmeguobuqudekan。