老公精神变心出轨真的不可原谅吗?

 nanrenbianxindebiaoxianyounaxie？zhangfuchuguigaizenmeban:ninengguanhaoyigeren，dannimeifaguanhaoyikexin。youyudangyigeneixinzainizheier，xuduo huajibiannibushuo，tayehuiduinixincunguanian。jiaruyigeneixinmeiyounizheier，wulunnizenmeshuodouyushiwubu。dangyigenanrenlaogongjingshenchuguishi，zuoweinvxingneixinyi......

 ninengguanhaoyigeren，dannimeifaguanhaoyikexin。youyudangyigeneixinzainizheier，xuduo huajibiannibushuo，tayehuiduinixincunguanian。jiaruyigeneixinmeiyounizheier，wulunnizenmeshuodouyushiwubu。dangyigenanrenlaogongjingshenchuguishi，zuoweinvxingneixinyidinghuishifentongchu。youyuniqinfenleneimejiu，juranhuandeletadepanbian。dangzhangfulaogongjingshenchuguiqueshibukeyuanliangma?

最先，需看你是不是有工作能力挽留他

 yibanzhuangkuangxia，pengdaonanti，henduorendiyishijianxiangqidebianshibikai。shijishangbikaitongchangbingbushijiejuekunnandeshifangfa。tabuainile，keshibenzhishanggenjuyiwu，tadouhaimeichedipanbianni，nibuyaoweicilaizuoweihetadirendeyuanyin，yaolejierenzheiyishengnanyipengdaozishenaiderenhexiaideshier。tadejingshenshizhipanbianhuoxujinjinyishide，keshishijiantongchanghuirangnishidehuida，renzheiyishengsheibingbushizaimangranzhongduguoni?tangruoyougongzuonengliwanliuta，dangranjiuburongyisuokunneishihou。tangruozhendeshibuyuanyuanliang，biaomingnihaiaizheta。

次之，要学好与世无争

 renshengdaolushijishangyizhiyouhenduofanmendeshier，zheicushininanyishihuai。wangwangneiyang，shiyouyurenhuozheyizhishiyoubajiushibushunxinde。jiarunizhidaoyushiwuzheng，niyejiuhuirangzishenhuodegengweikaixinyixie。zheiyishengdajiasheidoubukeyishangxia，zuihoukeyishangxiadejinjinwomenziji。nanshengzishenjiubukeyijixiwangyu，sheiyouxiangguojixiwangyunanshengguoyibeizideni?taaiyigeren，tabuaiyigeren，tongchangdoushiyouyutayouzishenderenshengjiyu。renshengdaoluneimeduoshenghuo，zenmekenengmeishimeikeweizhunizhuan。nvxingruonengnadeqifangdexia，bianhuigaoqingchu，zishenbianshizishenkaixinhebukaixindegenbenyuanyin，wulunlingyifangzaimazishenshenpang，douburongyijuededaogudu。

再度，不宽容是由于跟自身的心走不过去

 wangwangbuyuankuanronglingyifang，shiyouyugenzishendexinhaizoubuguoqu。shiyouyuzishenbazheiyifenqinggankandetaichunsui，taidanyi。yuanbenrenweizheiyifenqingganhuibianchengzishenjinshengmeilidejuannian，xiangbudaozishenshenxinbuyideqingganbanluquesankaichang。huoxunijuedebukuanronglingyifangduilingyifangbianshishidechufa，keshinizijijianglaideqinggankenengmaixianghechu?youshinvxingyizhihuiyouyuyuwangrangzishenmeifaanxin。renzheiyisheng，wulunshikaixinhuanshikebei，shijishangzhongqiyishengquanshishenghuobuyi。jiaruobazheixiecuozongfuza，mangrantongchudeshenghuozhichengge，shougongbianzhirushiruhua，xingminghuoxucihoueryuelaiyuefenghouyixie。yaoshimeiyouzheixiebumeiguan，zenyanghuodegengmeilideyisheng。

 nanrenbianxindebiaoxianyounaxie？zaixuduo jiazhongdangzhong，xuduo qingkuangxiahemudebiaomiandouyangaibushangbenzhidefenqi。huoxunishizhongmeifalejieyifenhunyinshenghuozhongbaokuoshiduoshaobiequhedanfu，keshiyidanniqinshenjinglizhihou，niyidinghuimingbaizheiyishengxingfuhuoshibuxingfukuaile，doubingbushiyongzuichunshuochulaide。jiaruonikeyixuehuifangxiaxinlidezheixiezhizhe，haohaobuhuishoudaolingyifangdebuliangyingxiangdehuozhu，xiangbanfagaijindajiazhongjiandeguanlian，baituodangjindenankan，xiangxinnibianhuimingbaishenmeshixinhuaiganenhekaixin!