如果老婆出轨变心该如何挽救婚姻？

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你能先不用说哪些，让老婆自身而言说她都做不对哪些，耐下心听她说完，随后你再然后说，并且要“关键留意”的是，你说起的內容并不是老婆的婚姻出轨，只是这么多年，你以便让这一家好好过日子努力了是多少，多挑一些辛酸的事而言，并适度的加剧语气，之前不肯说怕她操劳，如今都能够不遗余力的说出来，便是由于她不明白你出外的辛酸泪，才不理解你回家了后冷漠的小表情和厌烦，你说起的让她痛心，让她内疚，让她心痛，让她了解自身的这类个人行为是多么的错，仅有那样她才会发自肺腑的了解到自身的不正确，而不仅是出自于价值观念上的。

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