老公该如何面对妻子变心出轨？

nvrenbianxindebiaoxianyounaxie？suhuashuodehao：luomadiguofeiyiriwangong!xifuchugui，qingnihaohaoxiangxiangnantichuzainaer?ruguoshinixifu，neimenizenyangyingduixifuchuguideni?jiarunizaoyiyibuaita，yaoshimeiyouxiaohai，niyouwufarongrenzheiyizhuangkuang，neimejiujianjuelihunba!yifangzishenyibeizizuo“yuanfu”，ying......

suhuashuodehao：luomadiguofeiyiriwangong!xifuchugui，qingnihaohaoxiangxiangnantichuzainaer?ruguoshinixifu，neimenizenyangyingduixifuchuguideni?jiarunizaoyiyibuaita，yaoshimeiyouxiaohai，niyouwufarongrenzheiyizhuangkuang，neimejiujianjuelihunba!yifangzishenyibeizizuo“yuanfu”，weihaileliangrendezhangjiuxingfukuaile。

keshi，jiaruyongyouxiaohai，huoshiniyaoshenaizheta，erzheyouqiyidehua，neimajiuniyaoshoulianxingaomandexingzi，pouxixifuchuguideyuangu，zhaodaofangfancuoshi，qinfenwanliulaopo、wanhuihunyin，rangtadaizhuxinhuijiale。

一、工作中日理万机，对老婆鄙夷寡欲。

xuduolaogongyouyupingchangtaimang，zerenxintaiqianghuoshigongzuozhongyalida，yizhipijuanyujiaoji，wangjizijizuoweizhangfudezeren。wangjilexifushizishenwanlitiaoyiqulaide，wangjileguoqumeiridehuayanqiaoyu，duilaopoyezongshifanlaizhangkou，yilaishenshou，naizhiduilaopoguanzhuzishendehuadouganjueshixutaohebukanrumuchengshou。chuwaigongzuozhongtitieruwei，zaijialifanerzuoqileyemener，duilaopomeishenmetiexintengaiketan。erlaopozhangqixinghezhangfugoutongjiaoliubuchang，jingshenkongxu，xinliguduyayigan。jiaruchulaigongzuozhong，pengdaoguanzhuzishendechengshudenanren，jiufeichangrongyibeidadong，beiganxiangfenghenwan，feichangrongyihongxingchuqiang。zheiyiquanshijiejiujingshenmezuizhongyaoni?youxierenshuochengqiancai，youxierenshuochengfangwu，youxierenshuochengshenxinjiankang，youxierenshuodeshiqinggan。shijishangrenshengdaoluzuizhongyaodeshiruguoniqueshenmedeshihoushenmezuizhongyao。

danglaopozailaogongneibiancongganqingshangbukeyihuodekaolvdeqingkuangxia，zaiwaimianpengdaoshihedeturangcengjiufeichangrongyizizhangchuwaiyunanti。yinci xifuchugui，zaiqizhongyigejudadeyuangubidingshiganqingshangbukeyihuodekaolv。zuoweiyigelixianghuadelaogong，gangongzuozhongyizhizhuiqiuwanmeizhishanzhimei，meiyoucuo。keshiyebubihushiduibabamamadeaiyi。gongzuozhongriliwanjiyebukeyihushijiazhongdeyiwu，gengbukeyiduilaopobiyiguayu。youyuzheizhongquanshidianbaojiatingmaodundedaohuosuo。

二、结婚后对老婆欠缺了以前的赏析。

zhenduinvxingeryan，xuanzeyigenaxiedenanshengrichangshenghuo，zaiyidingshuipingshang，juecelejianglaideshenghuopinzhihexingfukuailedu。yingguoshehuijingjixueqicaisamouersenyiqianduixingfukuaileganleyigejiedinghuaxuefangcheng：xingfukuailexiangdangyuxiaoyingchuyuchongdong。dangxiaoyingbuhuigaibiandezhuangkuangxia，chongdongyuxingfukuailefanbi。jichongdongyueda，xiaoyingyuedi，chongdongyuexiao，xiaoyingyuegao。zhenduiyigenvreneryan，jiarulaogongzishizhizhongkeyilejietadegexinghua，shangxitadeyoushi，jieshoutadequexian，erqierangtachangkuaidechongfenfahuizishendeqianli，neima，zheiyilaogongbudandangzuolelaogong，haidangzuolepenyou，zhixin，lianrenneiyangderenwujiaose，dangyigenanrenzailaopoxinliwukequdaiqingkuangxia，qitayiqieyigenanrendoushidisanzhechazubujinqude。erzheiyilaogongduizheiyilaopoeryanyebiranshicishengderen。

dangnanrenzaijialiqizhudaodiweishi，yaoduojiandaonvrendeyoudian，ruguoyigenvrenqueshaozixinshi，qingxubianhuiyayigan，zaizheileizhuangkuangxia，jiaruzaiyurenxiangchuzhong，huodebiedenanshengdehaowuyiwen，xunzhaogengzudezixinxinshi，jiujianghuisixukaowaile。nanshengduojiandaonvrendeyoudian，bianhuirangnvxingduoyixiezixinxin，neiyangdenvxingcaijianghuizhudongdandangjiazhongdeyiwu，caihuijiazhongduilaogongdeqinggan。dangyigelaopojuededaolaogongdechongniyujiatingdexingfukuailedehua，jianxintashiyougongzuonenglididangwaibudeyinyoude。

wangwangwaiyu，zhijieyuanyinshizaijialiquefaanquangan。wangwangbuwaiyu，shiyouyubuquefaanquangan。mingbaileneiyangdebenzhiluojixing，xiangxinniyehuilejieleqiziwaiyu。renfeishengxian，youshishihaodibuguoyique。keshi，ruguonidonglemeigerendoushizuocuoshideqingkuangxia，niyehuigaoqingchu，xifuchugui，laogongyeshiyouyiwuzai，zuoweizhangfuderenzenyangyingduixifuchuguishihunyinshenghuokefoujianchixiaqudeguanjiandian。jiranquleta，weihejiubukeyiyirujiwangdeshangxitani?jirannantichulai，bixudebianshiyingyongdi，jijidiquyingdui。zuoheliditianbuhewanliu，shengyuqianwandemaiyuanhedachaodanao。

三、本身心态状态和情商智商能力建设不够。

suhuashuodehao：“niaosuiluanfengfeitengyuan，renbanxiannengpinzigao”。yingduihunwailian，dajiayinggaizenmeban?xifuchugui，laogongyededuocongbenshencengmiankaolvdao。jiehunhouzishenyoumuyouhushitishengbenshendesuzhi，huoshiduizishenmeiyougaoxiedejingshenzhuiqiu。shifouzishendejingshenmianmaobukeyihelaopotongbufazhanqushi。ruguoshizheixiefangmiandeyuangudehua，laopoyebukeyizaiyiguoqudemuguangziwoxinshangle。haodeqingganhehaodehunyinbidingshiqingtouyihe，xianghuzhijianqianjiu，xianghuzhichengdian，tongbufazhanqushide。zuoweiyigechusedelaogong，yaoyouyigetaiyangyiyangdexintaizhuangtai，yaowenzhong，youyoumogaoxiao。juyouzhilijiejuegongzuozhongdenanti，youyouqingshangzhishangjiejuegezhonggeyangrenjijiaowang。wulunshijiehunqianhuanshijiehunhou，doububihushibenshendexintaizhuangtaiheqingshangzhishangnenglijianshe。

yaorangzishenyouyigewenxindejiarichangshenghuo，zuolaogongdejiuxuyaosuzaozishenpojufengcaidegexinghua。zuixian，yaoyouyigezishenrentongde，erqiezhenxinshiyixiaideshier，bingqiezheiyishierkeyichanshengjingjifazhanshouyi。youyuzheiyishier，nenggoujinihuodexinxin，congrong。cizhi，zhenduicaifu、weiwang、quanlimeiyoutaiguodexingquaihao，bujiyuqiucheng，doubuyangaoshoudi，gengxiangyaozhuiqiuwanmeixinlidefengfuhekaolv。zuizhong，yaobazijidelaopozuoweizishenzheiyishengzuifeichangzhidezuiaideren，yutabaitouxielaoxiangsui，chongaiyoujia，shenghuoshangxianghufuchi，jingshenshizhishangtongbupianpianqiwu，xiangqinxiangyuan，gongchuangjianglai。yigenanrenzhenshidefengcai，bushinijilingyifangliuyouxingfudediyiyinxiang，zhishilingyifangrenshinixuduonianyihou，yiranxiaihenizaiyiqi。jiarulaogongkeyiranglaopodaxinlishangxini，chongbaini，neimataweishenmehuisuibianwaiyuni?

四、不明白另一方的情，就没法溫暖另一方的心。

jiaruaishinuande，sheidouburongyixinsui。ruguoaishiqueshi，sheidouburongyixinhan。laopojiushinidangshitiaoxuandedeyongyishengquguanaidelianren，xianrujintachuguile，neimabidingshiduinisilexin，huoshinimeiyouyongzishendeqingganwennuantadexin，huoshijiushinimeiyouchusedaokeyishitashuxinzuonidelaopo。nvxingjihuquanshilixingde，zaiganqingdequanqiulishizhongshiqidaiai，xuyaoaide。keshidangtadebixubukeyikaolvdeqingkuangxia，tadeneixinbianhuizaoshouyayiganhesunhai。ziran，neiyangshuobingbushishuolejietadewaiyu，zhishishuozheijianshiqingwaiyudeyixieyuangu，zhangfumenzaiyudaoneiyangdeshier，zuixianyaoxiangdeshiqizichuguiyingbuyinggaikuanrong。zaihunyinshenghuoli，shuobailedejiazhongdashierquanshichengqianshangwansuoshileijidaoyidingshuipinghoubaofade。aiyizhineimadeyichujifa，yanxiaoyunsanyoumeiyoudadaoli，chaoyueleshijian，kuayueleshineikongjian。meiyoujigerenkeyijiangdeqingxi，daodegaoqingchu。

rutongxifuchugui，dangshinenggouaizheni，ziranhaikeyimishangtaren。wangwangbuzaiyinideqinggansunhaini，neishiyouyutazishendexinhuoxuzaozaoyibeisunhai，huoshizishendeqingganmeiyoubeinigaoduzhongshi。zhenduichuguidelaopoeryan，youshichukaikuijiu，jianghuidaliangdeshiguduhekeling。youyuwaiyuzhongjiuyemaozheduoshaodefengxianxing。yikeposuidexin，bixudebingbushitianbuzhishimingbai。renshengdaolurenshengmeiyouruguo，zaoyichanshengdeshiermeifagenggai，bixudeshiyonglejiehebaorongquzhongguiyuhao。“wumaitianqiyixiaosan，jiangshuihuarouqingsishui。wenjunjiduochou，boyunbanyouyou”。huoxujiushinizaiyilingyifangguoduo，yinci caihuiyouxinchongchong。huoxushiyouyuniaitaguoduo，yinci cainanyishihuai。

meiyifenqingganquanshilejiezhongxinlianxin，meiyikezhenxinshiyiquanshikuanrongzhongfengyutongzhou。rendeyishengzhongmeiyouyifanfengshundeshier。hunyinshenghuoyeshiyigedaronglu，nenggourongrongyiqieyiwanghetongku，nenggoulianchuyikekantoudeyushidelianghaodexintai。shinanxingjiuxuyaoxuehuichengshou，xuehaoxiaorong，xuehaowangque，wanqiangyongganyidian，xuezheyiwangwuqiankanyixiejingse，shangxicanlandeyangguang。jianxinshijiannenggouyizhiyiqiewaishang。shengmingzhongmeiyicidetongchuquanshiyizhongfazhan。shijishangneishinianshao，yixiezhuiyi，zhiyoutiaoxuanwangque，caiyouzaishengdejianghui。haohaohezishendelaopotanyitan，zaicishengchanzhizaoyixielanmandesuiyue，changshikuanrongnidelaopo，keshiyouyaowanzhuan，quelidigenjuqingyidebiaoshu，rangtaqingxidiyishidaozheifenainenggousuoyoujita，keshibudetaercicaita。yaorangtalejie，jibianniainita，yebuhuishizhongmeiyoudaodedixiandifangrenta。yaoxiangxiangyouzheifenai，jiuxuyaoqinfengaohaonidelaopo。

zhongjiu，zaihunyinchuguizhong，shoushangdejiaoda dehuanshinvxing。waibiandenanrendoushichuziyuwanxiade。meiyouhaoduogenanshengzhenshishixiangquyigebierendelaopode。jiaruyigenvrenjinjinqitananshengdewanjudehua，zheiyinvxingzishenyeshizaiwuruzishen。shirendoushiyouqinggan，shixindoushidongxin。jianxin，nideqinfenyidinghuiwanliutaneikeyoulingyiyangxin。

nvrenbianxindebiaoxianyounaxie？renshengdaolumianbulekekebanban，hunyinshenghuozhituyouzhangeryoujianxin。haonanrendoushibiequchengdade，yaoxiangyouyigewennuandejia，jiuxuyaozaibeishangzhongxuehuichengshou，zaijingjichuzhonghuitanran。jiuxuyaolianchu“zaixiangdulinengchengchuan”，suzaozishenzhenshidefengcai，jibianxuduonianyihou，zuoweilaopodetayehuizhongxindigantandao：lijingcangsang，huanshiganjuenishishide!