怎样优雅地挽回出轨的老婆？

 nvrenchuguihoudebiaoxianyounaxie？yigenanrendezhiliangfanyingzaineihanhesixiangguannian。yigeyazhidenanshengrutongyipianhaiyang，bujudiandiandidi，youkuanrongheliu。yazhidenanshengwangwangzaoshounvxingdeqinlai，shiyouyuta“zaixiangdulinengchengchuan”，yigexinruohaiyangdenansheng，yazhidilingrenkanqilaisatuoqianwan。dangqizichugui......

 yigenanrendezhiliangfanyingzaineihanhesixiangguannian。yigeyazhidenanshengrutongyipianhaiyang，bujudiandiandidi，youkuanrongheliu。yazhidenanshengwangwangzaoshounvxingdeqinlai，shiyouyuta“zaixiangdulinengchengchuan”，yigexinruohaiyangdenansheng，yazhidilingrenkanqilaisatuoqianwan。dangqizichuguishi，tadewanliufangfayeshijianyieryouwanmei，cuiquweiliangzi：yazhi!neimatagaizenyangyazhidiwanliuchuguidelaopo?

一、用创作来迁移恼怒

 pingchangrenjuede，yantanjuzhiyuhanyangzuinengxiyintaren。keshizhenduinvxingeryan，tongchangshineileiyouyuxinxinertouluchuqudecongrongdandinggengnengzhengfunvren。yazhidenanshenggaoqingchu，rennaonudeqingkuangxiazhilidengyuling。yinci，dangqizichuguishi，tamenbingbushibuqinao，zhishixuehuileyijingzhidong。bazijidenaonudouqianyidaochuangzuodejiqingzhongqu，changshirangzishendenaonufama，zhileng。youyutamengaoqingchuzheigeshihouwulunshiyinjiu，jitarenqingtuhuanshichuqulvyou，doumeifadiaojiehaozishendexintaizhuangtai，erjinyouzishencaisuanshizishendejiushi。yinci，tamengenjuchuangzuolaidiaojiezishendexintaizhuangtai，qifazishendeconghui，molianzishendeyanzhanxing，zishencaikeyizhendingziruodijiejuedangjindenanti。erchuangzuodequanguochengyeshirangzishenlizhidejieduan。youyuchuangzuo，zishenjianjiandiwanglenaonu，yeshulilegousi，lingrenyuelaiyuewanshan，yazhi。lingwaiyeshulilezishengairuhequyingduizishendexifu。

二、尝试了解日常生活的心灵美

 dangdaideshehuifazhanjiezouganjikuai，huoxushuiyijuedejiyu，fujindeshenghuohuanjingdouzaoyifashenglezhuanbian。yincizaineiyangdeshenghuozhuangtaizhizhong，rengengyaomingbaixunsudiaojiezishendegongzuonengli。dangqizichugui，jiarunibuzhidaoruhequrichangshenghuo，zhiyoubiaomingnideminganhexinfuqizao。yazhidezuigaojingjiebianshiqujueyulejielerichangshenghuodexinlingmei。shuobailezhen，jiushijiushiduizishenqiuzhenwushi，bubihuozaimengli，yebubipiantaren。“shan”，dangranshishanliangdeyisile。zunzhongxifu，bianshizaihaohaoaizijiderichangshenghuo。bubidiaonanxifu，bubijifengxifu，bubiwuruxifu。youshihounideyidiandianzhenchengjiunengjiedeyigeshanguo，shiniderichangshenghuoyinereryuelaiyuexingfukuaile。shengrenshuo，“richangshenghuobenbuqueshaomei，quefadeshifajuemeilideshuangyan”。nanshenglejiedemeishiburongyiqianguazhezishendebeiju，ruoneiyangzhiyoujiniderichangshenghuogengweibeiju。

三、真实地从心里爱妻子

 nvrenchuguihoudebiaoxianyounaxie？nanshengqulexifu，shijishangquanshiqianshixiudedeyuanfen。buxiangxinchangshiwenyiwenyihundenvren，jigejiagezishendelaogongbuganjuehouhuimoji?bierenlixiangbeijingdequanshiyibiangennizaiyiqi。shubuzhijiehunhou，huoxujiushinibudongdezhenxita，bulijietadetihui，rangtajuededaogudanwunai，yincicaihuixunzhaowaijiqiuyuan，naizhihongxingchuqiang。nannengkeguinizijijiumeiyouyidiandeyiwuma?nanshengyidingyaogaoqingchu，nvxingjiajini，keshixinlingshenchuzuiqipandeyidingshiyigeaizhetadenansheng。ganqingwangwangminzuliyiqinhai，shiyouyutashirenzuiganxinqingyuandetiaoxuan，tafanyingderenherenzhijiandezhongshiyuxinlai。jiarunimeiyoujiejuehaohetadeguanlian，jiumoguaitazuocuoshi。yincinanshengyidingyaozhongshinishenaizhedenagenvrendexuanze，lejietaxinlizhenshideqipan。ruguoniqudaodexifushizishenzhenshiaidenvxing，neimaniyibeiziyebuhuihouhui。neicikeqizichuguizenyangxiufuhunyinni?