老实老公被忽悠外遇，怎么处理出轨？

 nvrenchuguigaizenmeban？nvrenbianxingaizenmeban？jinqi，tingjianchennvshilaifanying，zishendezhangfuyuanbenshiyigeshifenlaoshibajiaobenfenderen。qianduanshijianbeitadehaoduogepengyoumentuoquyiqichifan，buqingchuruhedejiubeikengpianlaidaogeting，zhihouhaifashenglehunhouchugui。gengguanjiandeshiyuanbenrenweizheiyijianshieryibuzhidaoerbuzhibujuezhongde。

 nvrenbianxingaizenmeban？jinqi，tingjianchennvshilaifanying，zishendezhangfuyuanbenshiyigeshifenlaoshibajiaobenfenderen。qianduanshijianbeitadehaoduogepengyoumentuoquyiqichifan，buqingchuruhedejiubeikengpianlaidaogeting，zhihouhaifashenglehunhouchugui。gengguanjiandeshiyuanbenrenweizheiyijianshieryibuzhidaoerbuzhibujuezhongde，xiangbudaonagehunhouchuguimubiaojuranmeiduojiuzhaoshangmenyao3000yuanqian。jianzhiwunaideyisixianggentaliyidexindoushiyoule。xiangbudaonanshengjurantongku，shuotayebuyuanneiyang，xiangbudaoshierjuranfazhanqushidaozheiyichengdu。rujinwoyebuzhidaogaizenmechulitadezheiyihunwailianexingshijian。dajiazheiermingquetichuxialietiyi：

最先，你需要想办法先搞定这一事儿

 zheiyinvxingjiranganshangmenxuyaoqian，bidingbushishenme“langdexuming”。tangruosuibianjiuchuqianxiaomole，mianbulejianglaihuihaiyoushierjiuchanbuqing。yinci yaoxiangjiejuehaozheiyijianshier，jiuxuyaorangzheiyinvxinglejiezishendeshenjia。nixuyaozhaodaonizhangfudeneiyitiandangshirendepengyouchuquyigezuojianzhengren，erqiebagetingguanyongderenyezhaoyigelai，xieyigeyaoqianbiaoming，erqiebiaomingjianglaicongcibudaolaofanzheileide，rangtaqianming。zhongjiuzheileirenrebibushangduo，fangzhijianglaishiduo，bidingyaozouneiyangdeyigechengxuliucheng，yifangzhihouzaishuoyaozhang。rujinshehuifazhanshenmeyangderendoushiyou，zishenbuzhaomafan，bidingburongyiyoushierlaireni。yinci zhangfugaodegui，niruguobutitagaoding，zhihoububianhuidaliang，zhongjiurujinshehuifazhanlajirenyexuduo。keshinizhangfufancuowuzaiqian，yeshizizuozishou，zheizhongnizijineixinyaolejie。keshijiranbutaihaohuanshixianjiejuenantizhudao。

次之，你需要让你丈夫讲明白什么样的人不能交

 huoxunidezhangfushifenlaoshibajiao，keshizheimedanianjile，yedeyoudaodeguannian。naxiedepengyounenggou xiangchu，naxiedepengyoubunengxiangchu，zishenneixinyidingyaoqingxi。bubisuiyidejiugentarenyiqizuocuoshi，yebubibashierdouzeguaidaotarendeshenshang，zhongjiuzishenjiarukeyizuohaozijidezhu，tarenjiuburongyilanipaishui。suoyishuoyizheiyishierweitupokouwenhuajiaoyuxiazhangfu，qidaitazhihouzeyoujinshen，lingwai，haiyaoxuehaoziwobaohuzhongliang。

最终，不必把人生的希望放到男生的身上

 yongyouhunwailianhouzenyangjienahefangxiaguoqu?xuduonvxingwangwangbuxingfukuaile，bianshibazijiarenshengdexiwangfangdaolenanshengdeshenshang。quebuzhidaonanrenshizuibukekaode。laoshibajiaodenanshengbingbushiburongyiganhuaishi，zhishimeinaozuochongzuduodeshier。yinci ，dangnanrenyongyounantideqingkuangxia，nijiuxuyaogaoqingchu，zheiyishengzhenshidejiezhubianshizishen。dangnizhidaozheiyidiandeqingkuangxia，niyejiuhuigaoqingchudajiazhongjiankefouyiwangzheiyijianshier，guanjiansuozainizijikefouxiangtong。laoshibajiaonanshengdoushizuocuoshi，buyaoshuocongmingdenanshengle。

 nvrenchuguigaizenmeban？hunyinshenghuoshangdoushilengnuanziru，bubiyouyujiazhongdehenmanerweihaizishendexintaizhuangtai。shinantidoushiyouyiwangdeqingkuangxia，guoqujiuyaotayiwang，wuxufangzaixinli。richangshenghuoquanshizishende，niyikaixindexintaizhuangtaiyingdui，richangshenghuobiansuichukaixin，tangruoyiyoushangdeqingjieyingdui，zerenshengdaolucongciwukuaile。