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面另一方的婚外恋,我们都是立即受害者。但是,内心又忘不掉这一段情感,期待另一方可以和好如初。
最先大家内心要对婚外恋有一个客观性的了解。
hunwailiandaduoshudoubingbushiqinggan,xuduojinjinyouyuyishideyuwang,huoshiwaibudeyinyouzheixie。jiuhunwailianzhedexinlieryan,duoshituyishideshenmigan。jiranbingbushichengxinchengyi,neimabianhuiyouhehaoruchudezhuanzhe。
一,梳理好自身的情绪。
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二,调节一下大家交往的方法。
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三,内心的沟通交流。
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四,作出自身的更改。
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