我发现女人出轨该怎么办？

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现如今，应对妻子出轨的状况，有二种较为流行的论断。一种是劝和不劝离：一日夫妻100天恩，做为男人要反映胸怀。

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合适“劝和不劝离”的状况

 yiqieqingganchuxiannanti，doubukeyidanchunxingdezeguaiwaiyudeyifang，youyuzheizaiqizhongyehuichuxianxuduodekuzhong。liangrenzaiyiqishijianjiaozhang，shenghuoguodepingdanwuqi，xianghudoushiqushengchanzhizaoyiwaijingxidegongzuonengli，neimapengdaoduiwaibuxinxianhecijixingderenhuoshishi，dangranfeichangrongyibeixiyinzhu.

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合适“一次不忠，几百次无需”的状况

 youyileinvhai，nianqingdeshihouguode“mangmangliuliu，wuqianwugua”，xuduoshiqingganzuo、ganxiang。dengwandeyixietaileile，ganjuegaiyouyigeguichudeqingkuangxia，lijijiu“xungelaoshibajiaonanshengjiale”。haowuyiwendeshi，zheileinvxingzhenduichuanyidabandengwaizaizhuangshi，huanshihenyinrenzhuyide。yincitamenshenpangnanshengxuduo，congbuqianqueyixingpengyou。jibianjiehunle，xinliyemianbuleyizhibuzhuxinlidezaodongbuan。haokaneryouzaodongbuandenvxing，xiangduixingyiqienanrendoushiyijianhaoshiqing，weiyouduizishendelaogongbuneimayouhao。yuneiyangdexifuyiqiguoshenghuohuishifenjianxin，jiarutazaoyichuguile，yaoxinliyoushu。

合适“反省自己，皈依相互”的状况

 zhayitingzheileijiaofashi“quanlibuquanhe”，shishishangyougengduofangmiandeyaosu。qizichuguideyuangubuqingchuyixieshilaogongzishendenanti：xiyan、shijiu、paojiubayechang、piaochang、duqianzheixie，jiaruzishendeshenshangdedequequeyouzheizhongnanti，jiuyingdanghaohaodixiangyixiangyixiegerenxingweizuodeshifoutaiguofenle。

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