会变心的人都是什么心态？

nvrenchuguigaizenmeban：nvrenbianxinhunyinshenghuoyutanlianaidechabiebudanyoufangshi，yeyouyiwu，tanlianaideqingkuangxia，bicibuyongkaolvdaotaigegefangmian，yaoshigaoxingjiuhao。keshihunyinshenghuozebuyiyang，dajiashigongtongmingyun，yaoxianghuyingduihenduodongxi，yinciyaoyoubiaozhun，youzerenganquweihubaoyangbiaozhun。

前不久，《人物》访谈人专家教授潘绥铭，“这些年，最给你出现意外的转变是啥?”

pansuiminghuiying，”zuichuxianyiwaideshiwoguodehunyinchugui。“

nvrenbianxinbuguannanrennvren，zhanbidouhuishenggao。tebieshizailaopodehunyinchugui，shiquanqiuzhanbide。

对啊，以往的時间里，大家经常聊得男士外遇的话题讨论，却非常少牵涉到女士。大家曾一直认为“女性出轨”是个很漫长的话题讨论，而当潘绥铭专家教授把他的调研摆到大伙儿眼下，却发觉这一客观事实，早已没法再装作置若罔闻。

laidao2016nian，nvxingchuguilvzaoyikuaitiejin15%。

erjiatingzhufu，bianshichuguilv“gangwei”。diaoyanshuoming，fufupingshiqinniyuelaiyuedi，hunyinshenghuomanyilvbuduanjiangdi.....

zheiyixiangxiangshujuxinxilingrenlingrenzhenjing，daodishizenmehuishi?

dahuoerdoushiyouyigehuanjue，waiyudedaduoshushinanxing。qishibushi，zidawojindaoganqingzhizaoxingyeyihou.wolejieyoubujiqishudenvxingyezaimomodiwaiyu。

yuanxiannanrenmenwaiyudaduoshuxiaichuxinjilv，daizhulianrenerzhigaoqiang，kanqilaizishenyoukenai;erchuguinvrendouhuitoule，bugenrengongxiang，zongshizaigongzhonghaohoutaiguanliqiaoqiaodegendajiaqingtu。

我看了稀奇古怪的实例，小结出出轨女人不外乎两大要素：

外部原因

丈夫对她不太好

tingguochuguinvrenshuoguoshuzuiduodeyijuhuabianshi：“wolaogongyijianshibutaihao!”zenmehuiyouzheileizhuangkuangni?

juedaduoshurendoulejiehunyinshenghuoyutanlianaibuyiyang，danshiwenshijiyoushenmebuyiyang，jianxinfeichangshaorenkeyihuiyingchuqu。

youyuliangrenyouyiqiandelianaiguanxi，daojindaohunyinshenghuo，yiqiandelangqingqieyihuibianweiyanyouchaimijiangcucha。yongyouxiaohaiyihou，nanshengjindaoyangjiahukoufangshi，nvxingjindaozhaoliaoxiaohaifangshi。yincizheixietanlianailisuishisuidiyouzhedeqinmiwujianbianchenglerichangshenghuoshechipinbaobao，zheicidaozhishenme?richangshenghuodeluochagan，bianhuirangnvxingganjue：tameiyouxiangzhiqianyijianshihao，rujinyagenbuzaiyiwo，buaiwole!

zheishiqiahaoyouyigenanrenzaizheigeshihoujitaguanai、zhiai，waiyujiubianchenglemingzhengyanshun。

外部引诱高，其他男生对她好

jiarushuozhangfuduitabutaihaoderen，shiyouyushiquduishenghuodelequjiqiduihunyinshenghuodezhongshierwaiyu，neijiaruzhangfurengranchongnita，dantarengranzijintouruqitananshenghuaili，youyounaxieyuanguni?

youyigefensigaosuwo，tashijishangyikaishishifentaoyanwaiyujiqi，keshidangnagekushuaijunxiucaihuahengyidenanshengduitayinmouguijimengjishi，tabuguyiqiedizijintouruletadehuaili。

tayouyigeshifenxingfukuailedesankouzhijia，zhangfushifenduitafeichanghao，youyige4suidehaizi，zaishangyouzhiyuan，tashiziyouzhiyezhe。zaipenyoushengripaiduideqingkuangxialejieleneigeren，weiandequti，lengkuomingxideliankongjiqidaicideshengxian，yixiazijiuxiyinzhuleta，rangtaneixindexiaoluluanzhuang。erzhengqiaodeshi，neigerenyeliuyilaidaozishen....congneishiqi，lianggerendeguanlianyifayifabukeshoushi。

内部原因

zishenduizheiyifenqinggandezijintourubuzu

zaiqingganzhongzijintourudeyuedadeyifang，bianhuiyuebushedesheqi。zaichuguiderenzhizhong，nenggouhenxianzhudejiandaoyidian，bianshizaizheiliduanqingganli，zijintourudetongchangshigengshaodeyifang。

义务度不高

hunyinshenghuoyutanlianaidechabiebudanyoufangshi，yeyouyiwu，tanlianaideqingkuangxia，bicibuyongkaolvdaotaigegefangmian，yaoshigaoxingjiuhao。keshihunyinshenghuozebuyiyang，dajiashigongtongmingyun，yaoxianghuyingduihenduodongxi，yinciyaoyoubiaozhun，youzerenganquweihubaoyangbiaozhun。

kandaiqingganyiwudubugaoderen，tongchangfeichangrongyichengshoubuleyinyou，meiyouzishendebiaozhun。yiwududelingyimianshizisizili，dangyigerenjinjinzaidianjizhezenyangrangzishengaoxingdeqingkuangxia，jiufeichangrongyidaozhisunhaibierendezhuangkuang。

xuduo chuguideren，bingmeiyouyishidaozheiyidian，youshizaiqianyishizhonglihuianweiziji：bubianshigentarenfashengleguanxima，zheimeiyoushenmelebuqide;woshiyouyubugaoxing，xiangxunzhaodianrangzishenkaixindeshiqingbale!

本身的报复心态

chukaisuoshuchangshuodejigefangmianyaosuchuxianyiwai，yeyouyizhongrendewaiyunenggouchengzuo“chuyubeidongwaiyu”。neibianshitamendezhangfu，zaiwaimianyouhunwailian，huoshiwaiyu。chuziyubaofuxintai，xianggenjuwaiyuqitananshengrangzishenxintaipingheng。zheileigerenxingweishijishanghenchun，queyeshiyouyixiewukenaihe。

nvrenchuguitongchanghenanshengbuyiyang，buguancongrentiyaoqiuhuanshijingshenxuqiuzheilianggecengmian，nvxingdewaiyuhuichuxiandaliangdewukenaihe，youyuzaixingcengmian，nvxingyingduideyinyouyushengjulaijiubinanshengduo。keshi，worenweizheizhongbuyinggaibianchengyigerenweiyinsuzishenwaiyubianbodeyuanyin!