老公出轨的时候，聪明的妻子该怎么做

老公出轨怎么办?曾经在访问中，许多已婚女性提出过最让妻子恐惧、最困难的问题是什么，在婚姻中妻子的手脚不知道如何应对的问题是丈夫突然提出离婚。 面对结婚，经过很多风雨也无法克服，丈夫的心被抛弃了。 让他们最害怕的是离婚后应该如何面对以后生活的重担，尤其是失去经济劳动力的主妇，她们完全脱离了社会。怎么挽回出轨的男人?

 fuqiwentibushituranbaofa，ershinimenhunyinzhongcunzaidewenti，qifazhanbuzhongshichuliwenti，buchuli，bumiandui，baochixianzhuang。 wentidecunzaibushisuizheshijianzizhujiejuede，ershisuizheshijiandetuiyi，wentidejilei，zhiyouyigezhehuodian，cunzaidewentijiuhuichedibaofa，zhangfuzhuzhanglihunshitingquduifangdesuqiu，fanshengjiehunwenti，jiejuewenti，wanhuihunyin。zenmewanhuichuguidenanren?

一、提高自我社会价值

 laogongchuguizenmeban?“ xiangyaohuifutadexintai，shouxianyaolejiezijidewenti，kankannihetazhijiandehonggou，sixiangshangdezhishishuiping，jiazhiguan，jingjixiaofeiguannianshangshifouyutalakailehendadejuli。 ” zhongxinjiehun，shouxianyaoziwogaishan，zengjianidemeili。 shouxianzizhujingjiyoufayanquan。 xiangxiangmaiyifuxuyaoshenshoufuqianjiduifang，jiatingdiweibiandebeidong，zaijiatingzhongjuedetazaiyangyu，lihunyekunnan，bunenggaibianqingkuang，suoyibunenganyuxianzhuang，yongyouzijidejingjishilifuqidejingjizhifubaochizaitongyishuiping。

其次，接受现实

 zijideganqingxiangzhangfutichulihundehua，ganqingjiuhuibengkui，shoujiaobuzhidaoyinggairuheyingduiturandedaji。 diyijianshijiushixianpingjingxiazijideganqing，buyaoyiweizhangfuhenilihunlejiupaoqileshijie，dazhangfuyongcubaodeyuyanmata。 zheizhihuishitayuezouyueyuanlilihundejuexinyueqiang，zheiyangdexingweizhihuishizijigengjiatongku，jiuxiangyigemeiyoulizhidefengpozi，bujinbunengjiejuewenti，haihuishizijigengjiachoulou。

 lixingdefenshourangzijipingjingxialai，mingquewentideyuanyin，xiangzhaodaozhangfulihundegenbenyuanyin。 dangnizhangfujianyilihunshi，niyaomianduiwenti，kongzhizijideganqing，bimianganqingshikongdaozhiqingkuangbukewanhui，tigaozijidejiazhi，buyaozaijiatingjingjizhongyikaozhangfushenghuo。