为什么越来越多的人选择出轨

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一、为什么越来越多的人选择出轨

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hunyinruhenenggengzhangjiu？hunyinjingyingjiqiaoyoushenme？

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yishizhuxingyuexingfukuaile，renyuexiangtanxian

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 weishenmeyuelaiyueduoderenxuanzechugui?chuguiwaiyudiaochaxianshizaiyuelaiyuejizhideziwojiazhiguidingyanqian，waiyushizuijiandandefangfa

 liyiderenfandaoshigengqinfenderen，youyuta(ta)buyuancouhe，duiyishizhuxingyeyouzhuiqiuwanmei，yinciliyixunzhao，erxuduorenquetiaoxuanjiuneimejiangjiuyiguoyibeizi。

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jianghuiyouyurenmenbigudairengengxinzijishisuiyide——wozuigaiyouzhegengqiangde。meigerendouhuixunmigengjizhidezishen。

 dangdajiajuededaozishendequeshao，youmeiyoufangfachulideneishihou，tamenhuiwen——nandaoshuowozheiyishengjiushizheiyanglemeiyou?woyaozaicirujindezheileiyishizhuxingma?juedaduoshuhunwailiandekaishi，yibanyuxingbuxianggan，zhishizaixunzhaoyouqing、shiyong、lejie、zhongshi、liuyijiqiguanzhu。

 80%delihunnanrennvrenjuede，tamenhunyinshenghuodeliekaiyouyuxianghumanmanshengshu，queshileqinmiwujiangan，huozheyouyutamentihuibushangaiyushangxi，zhineng20%dao27%defufushuowaiyuyaofuyibufenyiwu。

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waiyu，rangtamenzhaodaodaliangshenmigan、duligan，xiufuletamenduiyishizhuxingdeqidai。